annoying

Indonesia
November 23, 2009 1:41am CST
Why do people thought that i was so annoying :(??when i try to do good and never bother anyone else. i was wondering why it happen to me.. I need your advise all about what should i do .Thanks
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5 responses
@zhuhuifen46 (3484)
• China
23 Nov 09
Balance is something one should be aware of. Even if you are good willed, do not force it to someone who is not ready to share or accept. When you speak, have a second thought if you are speaking in the right time, in the right place, and in the right position.
• Indonesia
24 Nov 09
Your right maybe I spoke at the wrong time. Thank you Zhuhuifen
@peace001 (726)
• China
23 Nov 09
hi,prima don't be worried about that any more,just do yourself.you should be confident,and you can do well whatever you want to do.best wishes
• Indonesia
24 Nov 09
i agree with you.Thanks :)
• India
23 Nov 09
I understand perfectly well what you are trying to say. I am a person who is not so good in the 'people skills'. As a result I too feel sometimes that people get annoyed with me because I don't know how to gel with people at all times. Sometimes even I find people annoying and have to keep to myself. It is natural if that is your temperament. If you feel people are getting annoyed with you just keep to yourself for the time being and everythin will fall into place in time.
• United States
23 Nov 09
Well, could be the way that you are coming off to people? Maybe you need to work on your "people skills"? A lot people, I know I do, have this flaw. Everyone can be annoying in some way or another. Try seeing things from the way other people might see things sometimes. Put yourself in others shoes. Empathize. It could be things that you do not see. Also, what is annoying to one person, may not be that way to another. Everyone is different. I have a friend who sometimes I think can be annoying, and I will call him out on it politely on it. He is a great guy, but like everyone, he is not perfect, no one is. Some people call me out when they think that I am being annoying. I want people to call me out if they think that I am being annoying because I know when I need to be put in my place, and I know that I have the tendency to be "out there".
• Philippines
23 Nov 09
Uhm.. What do about you do people find annoying?