He's a liar/cheater...Am I stupid to let him win me back?
By gotcho0O
@gotcho0O (1257)
United States
November 24, 2009 7:41pm CST
To cut it short, 7 years and 2 months on and off relationship and he cheated on me not just twice. A month after he cheated again and a month after he was trying to win me back. So after his 1 month with that girl it was like nothing happened and he wants me back? wtf?! So, please help me decide..
I just don't want to let go of the chance..And then just caught myself falling hard again..I don't know what to do, and I'm actually expecting that he will cheat again...tsk! But I love him still... :,( ... And I don't wanna get hurt again.. And sometimes I feel sooo stupid.. And I'm sooo confused... help*
4 responses
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
25 Nov 09
hi gotcho,
if you are not strict he may once again nor once again he will cheat you several times,that is his mentality,decide once not to have his friendship,you may get another good friend there are lot of good friends,so do not go and fall once again with the same friend,have a nice day
,so what ever is written in your luck and fate that will happen,have a nice day
@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
10 Oct 10
im way late seeing this one but how did it turn out? i'll bet you've had to drop him again because usually a cheater is always a cheater. it seems he really dont love you enough to think of your feelings or he'd stop or else give you the option of doing the same thing. 
@gotcho0O (1257)
• United States
21 Aug 11
It was just a waste of time after that long on and off 8 yr relationship. See, if you're not really meant for each other, don't even force it, it's not gonna work. We broke up with the same reason again, third party. He even got the girl pregnant. I actually thought I was gonna die from that pain I felt, whew, thank God I'm okay now. Thanks bunnybon7 ;)
@yan_blue8 (1437)
• Philippines
25 Nov 09
It sounds like you don't want him in your life anymore. More than 7 years in a relationship must be so long enough for you to know each other and hopefully end up being together. But cheating can be repeatedly done when he used to do it for several times already. I think its time for you to wake up with the situation. You wouldn't want a cheater, would you?
@gotcho0O (1257)
• United States
17 Jun 10
Thanks. Finally, I'm done with it. Sad thing is that we end up hurting each other or he hurt me most. I wasn't able to support him about his problem with his pregnant girlfriend or might as well say wife since they got married. At first he wanted an abortion, but nobody helped them since you know the fact that it's just not right. So that was my thought about hurting him lol. I felt like for the first time, there were no support coming from me, well, I hope he's aware that he gave me so much pain duh? Lol.
Sigh! He's stupid. We had plans about us already and he ruined it. The worst thing was .. oh well everything. I shouldn't have from the start accepted him back..again and again which causes him to cheat more. So we're both stupid, oh na-uh, he's stupid and I was just so much in love with him. Lol.
I therefore conclude, if you have the longest relationship of all time even if it's 8 years, let go of expectations. So nobody will get hurt in the end.
