which one you prefer -love marrige or arrange marrige

India
November 25, 2009 1:59pm CST
which one you prefer love marriage or arrange marriage
21 responses
• India
25 Dec 10
Both marriages have their pros and cons so cannot say one is better than the other. It's more of a personal preference. I prefer love marriage more compared to arrange marriage because I feel it's not forced and it's more natural. Arranged marriages are man made while love marriages are nature made. At the end of the day success of any form of marriage lies in the two people involved.
• Philippines
10 Dec 10
love marriage becoz love is a gift that you should share to someone, someone that you decided to be your partner for life finding someone is not that easy what more about marrying someone you really doesn't know everyone has the right to choose.
@thewayis (646)
• Bulgaria
14 Dec 09
Neither. No marriage at all :) I am too much of an egoist to give myself to someone else :)
@atv818 (1980)
• United Arab Emirates
21 Feb 10
Love marriage because you get to pick the one you love to live the rest of your life with. Just imagine a union without love. Marriage sometimes falls apart. What more are the chances with those living together and are not in love? I pity them and I hope they can work it out well.
• India
21 Feb 10
obviously arrange marriage..because i love my parents..and they will chose THE BEST life partner for me..
• India
5 Aug 10
it depends if you are alredy in love go for love marriage don't compromise with your parents for arrange marriage if you r in true love...and if you are single (like me) ..arrange marriagecan turn out to be a love marriage like one can develop good understanding and love with his/her partner ...it will take sometime i think in case of arrange marriage
@Anne18 (11029)
27 Nov 09
I would prefer a love marriage as that is what happens where I live, but I do know some very happy married people who have had there marriage arranged for them and have had long and happy lives. And then not all love marriages work.
@felliana (114)
• Philippines
26 Nov 09
as there was a saying, "Marrying for love may be a bit risky, but it is so honest and God can't help but smile on it..." so you see, there's no doubt about it, i prefer love marriage than arrange one. the feeling is just so intense, when you married the person you love most. each day of your life is full excitement, happiness, content & peaceful. when you woke up every morning, he/she just beside you, just relax, sleeping, you pause for awhile and just look at him/her intently, with your heart full of your love...believe me, it really touches your heart gently & oh you'll have a wonderful day forward! so, i suggest prefer LoVe marriage you can feel the difference...
• India
26 Nov 09
Ya love marriage is more preferable to me than arranged marriage because I can able to know what kind of partner I am getting for the rest of life. Its easier to understand to each other because we know each other from past experiences. In arranged marriage one shall not get more than few weeks to know his/her partner and thats not enough to understand each others. To spend time and share happiness/sorrows one must have to know other's strength and weakness. So its obviously better to get married to loved one rather than arranged one.
• Pakistan
27 Nov 09
i would say love marriage because when it comes to love marriage the two people tie the nuptial only after falling in love with each other and probably after knowing each other after long time.they get ample time to explore bad and good things about each other.this helps them to develop great comfort level.on other hand if two people even dont know about each other when their marriage is arranged by their parents then they will take long to develop a comfort level,how can two strangers live together and share every thing while they dont know even about each other's liking and disliking.
@arsalaum (57)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
Well, of course! Love Marriage! I dont know how the couple in arrange marriage made it through. They're being dictated by the will of their parents. I cant imagine how they get along. :(
• United States
2 Dec 09
I would prefer marriage for love. It's great to fall in love and the marriage is so much more healthier when you know it is real. You actually have something to smile about. Arranged marriages are never for real and they always seem to have problems. They will continue arranging everything that happens in their lives.
• India
4 Dec 09
i would prefer love marriage as in this u hav the privilege to choose ur partner and get along with him or her as per u want and its completely our choice no compulsions
• India
5 Dec 09
I would definitely prefer love marriage. Love is a beautiful feeling and everyone must get this feeling at least once in their lifetime and i have a girl friend and i love her so much.you don't see arrange marriages that much in US or in other European states. Indian however has this tendency to opt for arrange m, marriages than love marriages if i am right.
@thuynhu (661)
• United States
25 Nov 09
A love marriage, there's no second thought about it. Why would I want an arranged marriage? I think I would be pretty upset if I had to do an arrange marriage, I mean I don't even know this person whom I'm going to marry. I think it's wrong to choose someone's spouse for them. Everyone has a mind of their own and should have the right to choose who they want to spend the rest of their life with. I want a love marriage cause I want to know the person I'm marrying. I want to be able to say that there's no one else I would want to be with and he's the love of my life. Which I am thankful I was able to do that and still be with my husband now.
• India
25 Nov 09
I prefer love marraige because we can know each other before marraige and we can decide that to marry that person or not.
@mawong79 (215)
• Malaysia
26 Nov 09
I would prefer love marriage as its a wonderful feeling & we can know each other and make decision together for marriage. However, it is also have some happy & good result that I hv saw in my relative family which they are arranged marriage. They can also start to love each other after married.
• Philippines
26 Nov 09
i would prefer love marriage because for me its a freedom of choice. it is so nice to feel the love that both parties are not forced. it is wise to have a love marriage because you can find your perfect match, if its not perfect at least close to perfect.
• Philippines
26 Nov 09
I would prefer to marry for love than to be in an arranged marriage because I believe in having the freedom and free will to choose the person whom you choose to be with for the rest of your life. A great sense of euphoria and well-being comes from the fact that you are getting to marry the one you chose to love, not dreading it. And before getting married, it is also important that the couple know their partners well. Little time is given to that if the marriage is arranged. It will make life bearable despite knowing that you and your future spouse come from different family backgrounds basically. The free will makes it all worthwhile.
• India
26 Nov 09
I prefer to love someone and want that to end up as an arranged marriage.. anyone will obviously prefer love marriage.. but we need to consider our parents wish too.. don't they have responsibility on us.. obviously someday i will be a father and will really feel bad if my son or daughter doesn't consider me while deciding their spouse.. so love but convince your parents and make it arranged..