Decision taking: How do you feel when you need to take an important decision?

@omiami (412)
Malta
November 26, 2009 8:40am CST
How difficult do you find it to take a decision? How do you cope and react? I need to take an important decision very soon and I don't know from where to start. How do you guys reach your final decision? I hate taking decisions but every now and then we face important things in life. We take decisions everyday, smaller and of no importance but then there are very important ones to take care of. Im not good in them.
1 response
@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
27 Nov 09
Whenever I need to make a big decision, I sit down and make a list of pros and cons. What are the good things and what are the bad things. I try to be as honest with myself as possible. I also try to look at how my decision will affect my future. I take into consideration how the people I love in my life are going to be affected by my decision. Ultimately, I try to do what's best for me but do take everything I possibly can into consideration. I don't know what kind of decision you have to make, but making a list of pros and cons is a good place to start. Good luck.
@omiami (412)
• Malta
28 Nov 09
I have to thank you a lot for this tip!I have never made a list of pros and cons. I just keep thinking and my mind sort of explodes. Really thanks for the suggestion. That is what I will do then. Thanks again.
@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
29 Nov 09
No problem. I hope it helps. It always helps me. Just be sure to be really honest with yourself. Try not to let emotions get in the way and look at the things on both sides as logically as possible. It's always put things into perspective for me and made making decisions a lot easier. Hope it works for you!