Which role have u been playing in your friends?
@xuanxuanfans108 (30)
China
November 27, 2009 12:30am CST
In my life,it seems that i have been playing a role of a listener in my friends.When they are promlematicor in bad mood,they will come to tell me and speak out them
After listening to their complaints,i will try my best to make them happy and feel better.
I know i have been playing the role of a listener.
Which role have u been playing in your friends ?
8 responses
@valentbaby (21)
• Indonesia
27 Nov 09
Hi, i always become the listener and the good girl among my friends....
But this role sometimes bring bad impact because it makes me often hard to say no..and become follower
@xuanxuanfans108 (30)
• China
27 Nov 09
Thank u 4 your reply.Sometimes ,i also feel hard ,bt we should try our best to do it as well as possible...
@karenkarenkk (1121)
• China
27 Nov 09
Hello, Xuanxuanfans, I think I am the both.
I actually do not like talk a lot when I feel low. I would like to talk and share the joy instead.
One of my female friend just talk to me that one of her friend likes complain very much. She talk with her for every minor things. She is really tired of it. I think I can understand her...
You must be patient enough, so to be a good listener 
@xuanxuanfans108 (30)
• China
27 Nov 09
Sis ,I'm happy for your reply.....To be a listener,we are the same .we need patience .For our friendship,let's be a good listener.Haha......
@shahalashamo (166)
• China
27 Nov 09
In my life i often play a role of a listener,but i seldom tell others.When my friends was in bad mood,i often advise them to tell out , i will be a listener and then i will comfort them.When i am in bad mood,i often adjust to myself to think towards good side.I tend to be a optimist.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
27 Nov 09
Hi xuanxuanfans,108,Well,I can say that my role to my friends is a good listener and adviser too.I n happiness and in loneliness,I always listen to my friends and i keep on advising them as long as i can.When they were happy i also laugh with them.when they're sad,I used to comfort them to lessen their heataches.I love my friends and i will always Treasures my friendship.God Bless!
@xuanxuanfans108 (30)
• China
27 Nov 09
Thank u 4 your reply. I think we are the same.Both of us is playing the role of listener.Coz,we really treature our friendship.
@saurabh_rmp (846)
• India
29 Nov 09
I used to play role of listner as well as Advisor in my friend circle.
It fully depends upon my interests as well as my friend's interests.
If I have to take decision about something and i think my friend can give good avice related to that then I will be the good listner in that case.
Now, I will see my friend is in trouble or confused about something where i can help him then i will play advisor role perfectly.
@MJay101 (710)
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27 Nov 09
I play the role of the dude who left town to be with his missus; the dude they only really see on 'special occasions'... I don't think my friends like me very much any more; I've not really seen them for ages!
Despite this, I like to think that I'm a listener - when I'm around - but also that I'm a bit of a joker. If you can't laugh at each other and laugh at the world (when you feel like crying), what can you do?
@invisiblelady (1655)
• Philippines
27 Nov 09
We have the same role. Actually, I'm not really a good company---when it comes to trips, drinking and all that. But whenever my friends are in having a bad time, they always come rushing to me. Just like now, I have a friend who is currently staying in our house because she has some family problem. This is the only way I can help her and my any other friends---I may not be able to be with them during "gimmick" moments, but I am always ready to give an open ear to hear their problems..
