Bad habits that needs to be broken.

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I have this problem. And it is a major problem. It is concerning the woman that is the grandmother of my kids. You've guessed it right. It is my mother-in-law. You see, she has this issue with hair. I know that this topic may sound dumb but it is her issue, not mines. You see, my 4- year- old daughter has very thick and long hair. At this time, my daughter's hair was not fixed, so it looked a little messy. Well, my mother-in-law saw her hair this way, and she told my daughter that her hair was bushy. Bushy means kinky, hard, nappy, peezy or whatever word that can describe frizzy hair. I thought that this was very mean of her to say to my daughter. My daughter is only a child. And she loves her grandmother dearly. I could not even bring myself to say this to my child my ownself. Now, I want you to see how bad habits spread quickly..... Last week, I asked my seven year old son how does his sister hair looks. He says it looks bushy, her hair needs to be fixed... Now where did he get this from? His grandmother of course. Don't you see how much of a negative vibe that my mother-in-law can have around my kids. Mind you, when she told my daughter that her hair as bushy she had a snide look on her face. I don't understand why she does this to me and my kids. I never tease her about how she has a head full of gray hair at the age of 58... I know that some people age quicker than others... I am tired of her picking and trying to be funny when it comes to my kids. She wants to be around them, but then she doesn't treat them right. What should I do? I have talked and talked to this woman, but nothing I can say will stop her from making us feel bad. And can you all tell me why she does this to me? And why does she make fun of my kids?