Do you like to be surrounded by people or Do you like to be alone?

@ram_cv (16513)
India
November 30, 2009 11:02am CST
Do you always like to have people around or at times you feel that you want to be alone? For me, I do value my time with myself. I need to spend at least one hour each day with myself either when I go for a walk or when I read a book or something. What's your preference? Cheers! Ram
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@jugsjugs (12967)
30 Nov 09
I would have to say that i like to have a bit of both.There are times where i just want to be on my own as there are things that i want to do on my own as well as have a bit of space.Other times i like to be with friends and catch up with them on all the things that they have done as well as have an adult chat and a good laugh.
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@ram_cv (16513)
• India
1 Dec 09
Yes, that is a more balanced approach. Taking some time for yourself and also spending time with others. Cheers! Ram
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• United States
30 Nov 09
It depends really a lot of the time I just want to be alone especially when im tired from a long day of work thats when I just want to be left alone and not be botherd with anyone. But I know during the holidays I like to be surrounded by family and I would hate to be left alone during christmas or thanksgiving.
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@ram_cv (16513)
• India
1 Dec 09
Yes, holidays and festivals are fun only if you are around with your family. Cheers! Ram
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
30 Nov 09
Hi ram, I need my space and always enjoy some time alone but we also need friends and family. I am very comfortable alone with my thoughts but I lived alone for three years and know that we can also have too much solitude. Blessings.
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@ram_cv (16513)
• India
30 Nov 09
Yes, three years is a long time to be alone. I do not think I can live for more than a month alone!! But every now and then I do need my own time. Cheers! Ram
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@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
30 Nov 09
i like being by my self, i really don't like sharing, when it comes to some things. i usually enjoy my walk to work, cause you get time to think.
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@ram_cv (16513)
• India
1 Dec 09
Wow!! Walking to work is great. Actually I would love to do it myself, but the humidity in Chennai really keeps me from doing it!! Cheers! Ram
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• United States
30 Nov 09
I tend to prefer to be completely alone. I'm not a people person, and never have been. I find most people to be either selfish and selfcentered, or just plain stupid. Who wants to be around a complainer, or someone who does a good deed, and then expects his/her 20 minutes of fame for it? Whiners aren't allowed in my life, and if you're doing good deeds for the acolaides, you're doing them for the wrong reason and should stop at this very moment, because you aren't doing yourself any good, and you're probably doing good for the least deserving among us.
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@ram_cv (16513)
• India
1 Dec 09
I myself hate cribbers and avoid having them around as they introduce negative vibes within you and things go bad once that happens. Cheers! Ram
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• India
30 Nov 09
hi I like to be with good people with whom i enjoy.I see movements not profits.I give time to my family,dog.Also spend time with myself.
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@ram_cv (16513)
• India
30 Nov 09
Good for you... Thanks for responding. Cheers! Ram
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@seeths (413)
11 Dec 09
I prefer sometimes to be alone so that I can get sometime for myself to get my things done.But now a days I am most of the time with my son.So its like both of us and I enjoy that company.
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@ram_cv (16513)
• India
11 Dec 09
Good for you. Cheers! Ram
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