I came out as a lesbian and lost my BestFriend. ='[
@Punkster4LiiFE (25)
United States
December 1, 2009 11:01am CST
I had a bestfriend... or sumone i thought was my bestfriend. And wen i came out to her as a lesbian she told me she didnt like i was hiding it from her, and she was to religious to continue a friendship wit me. this happened about 3yrs ago... i currently am missing this friend very very much. shld i look for her, or jus let her go?? was she ever a tru friend?? can u ever open a close minded person mind?? I jus need sum opinions, advice, anything
1 response
@yan_blue8 (1437)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
Hi Punkster!
Welcome to mylot!
Its been so long that it happened and you still remember her?
She was probably mad at you because she never knew that you are gay and didn't let her know from the beginning.
We're you able to talk to her after that?
I think she not worth your friendship. If she is really a friend to you, she should not left you and understand you supposedly for being a lesbian.
She was probably mad at you because she never knew that you are gay and didn't let her know from the beginning.
We're you able to talk to her after that?
I think she not worth your friendship. If she is really a friend to you, she should not left you and understand you supposedly for being a lesbian.@Punkster4LiiFE (25)
• United States
1 Dec 09
B4 i came out to her i was in denial... i didnt wana accept dat i was a lesbian, so i dated guys. nd dats why i told her wen i told her. i have not been able to talk to her after i came out.
@yan_blue8 (1437)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
You should have talk to her when you came out to be a lesbian.
You know, I have a friend who at first is a girl and later on turned out to be a gay. But we (her friends) are still there for her and support her for being one. She should have done the same. After all, its still you and you are still friends anyway.
@Punkster4LiiFE (25)
• United States
2 Dec 09
i decided to talk to her yesterday... nd she told me she was mad at first but she is ova it now... she sees dat im happy wit a girl nd it doesnt matter who im wit. nd im very happy i got my friend bak. we pretty much jus picked up where we left off 3 yrs ago. =]
