coping from the past relationship

Philippines
December 2, 2009 3:16am CST
if someone broke your heart and you wanted to move on. What will you do? Will you enter another relationship or you will wait for a time to heal the wound .
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9 responses
@natnickeep (2337)
• United States
2 Dec 09
It depends if someone I liked came along. I wouldn't go looking to get into a relationship but if someone came a long I wouldn't make them wait while my wounds heal. You wouldn't want to miss anything.
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
wow. thank you for that wonderful opinion at least now i know what to do.
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• United States
2 Dec 09
your welcome! life is short dear!
2 Dec 09
Moving on is hard from the start. I must have a determination to do it and the only person could help it is only myself. I have to learn to love myself and value my life because I believe it is a gift from God. I've been separated for almost 7 years and I focus my self on the thing that made me happy.
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
wow congratulation. Lets be happy. God is Good all the time. God speed
12 Dec 09
there's no easy way to mend a broken heart. broken heart is not that bad. but i guess TIME would help.. you have to pick up the pieces first that was broke. who says that you can't move on from the past. love moves in mysterious ways. someday, you'll find a man who'll treat and love you right.
• United States
2 Dec 09
I think that I would go about as usual, as much as it hurts, because I can't let a broken heart stop me from finding someone who will help me mend it together. If I did find someone I was interested in soon after the break-up, I would of course go ahead and start another relationship because that other person may not be around long enough to wait for you to 'heal' so why not take advantage and go for it? That other person may be the one you've been looking for to mend your broken heart.
@yan_blue8 (1438)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
For me, it takes time to make the wound heal. So i'd rather go for someone who can love me again and enjoy life again!
@bren_yrra (354)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
If someone broke my heart and wanted to move on, I won't enter to another relationship yet.If not, it's just like I'm acting as hypocrite or just using the other guy just to forget the past relationship.When I love someone, it's really true so it won't be easy to recover.Yet, time will heal the pain as they say.I will keep myself busy and continue to go on Maybe, I should give time to other things like improving my self, giving time to excel on what I do, serving or helping others in every opportunity and developing a closer relationship with God.People have their own choice and we need to respect it.So, if the past relationship didn't work then let's remember that there's always brighter side in life.It means, if a door closed, let's not forget that there's another door that opens.
@Godmother (476)
• Indonesia
2 Dec 09
I would not seek another relationship as soon as possible, but yes, if another comes along and he has the ability to cheer me up and be kind to me, I would go for it (and I did). Once I admit to myself (honestly) about my faults in the relationship, I forgive myself and him. It helps heal the pain, when you understood what went wrong. I'd be more careful in the next relationship, and if it fails again, then I evaluate again. Life is a learning process, things come and go...people too.
• China
2 Dec 09
You wanted to move on when someone broke your heart, i think it's an upset experience. I think i will choose to wait for a time to heal the world. The person who breaks your heart is not worthy your love.
• China
2 Dec 09
In my life,once I met so many question.My temper is very bad when I met bad friend.I have no patience and talk to him.sometimes I have no ideas for them.The only way is with nobility for them.Angry is to punish oneself the mistakes of others.In order to live longer,Don't angry. Happy everyday.