have you ever fight with your friend??

India
December 2, 2009 10:31am CST
[b]Recently i got messed with my best friend, we were discussing something than suddenly we started to make fun of each other than dont know what happen to that chat it started becoming the serious matter and we started to stripping each others secrets and i was not able to calculating that what the he_l happened to us.. what was the point and why we were fighting like that too we got phscically over each other like punching and kicking and all.. then two days we didnt talked to each other than i was started to miss him and felt bore over every place wherever i went.. i didnt enjoyed at all without him.. so surprizingly we met at the market store where we both used to go many times for something to eat.. we patched up over there said sorry to each other and started all that fun again.. . many timeswe friends used to fight with each other that doesnt mean that ours friendship will over their.. every friends may be good or best friends they fight sometime just for fun or by lil misunderstanding.. my friends rocks...
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• United States
5 Dec 09
Yeah, I've fought with my friends before but not to that extent where we would physically try to hurt each other. I think the worst it's ever gotten was when we just stopped talking to each other for a while and tried to avoid each other. Slowly by slowly, we would start to talk to each other as soon as the ice was broken and then we'd be back to normal again. The funny thing is, we usually have fights over the dumbest things. I have a group of friends and so sometimes we even get into group arguments over the dumbest things, but mainly because of a few people that can't control what they have to say. I've been one of those people a couple times in the arguments and it's always gotten to the point where I get really disappointed and angry at them for not being able to understand. I try to reason with them but they just seem so closed minded that this tiny little argument that I have with some of my friends, turn out to be a lot bigger, and just like yours, it escalates into something more than just a small fight (though there is no physical fighting, just a lot of verbal). Usually when we start over, it can be a little rough, but we end up going back to our normal friendships and such not too long after a fight or argument like that =]
• Pakistan
3 Dec 09
yah i fight many time for the breaken of my ruls when i writning this commint at that time i also disturbed with my frind
@josga2008 (320)
• Canada
3 Dec 09
Of course I fight with my friends. The verbal fight that is, not physical. If it happens often then people should maybe look again at their friendship, but fighting once in a while is a normal thing. The main thing is to make sure that you cool off, then go back and see if you're still mad at each other. Usually, after a cooling period, then you often make up.
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
Yup, as even though I like to remain diplomat my patience is also being tested. I am annoy by manipulative behavior of a friend that i feel being squeeze on my neck. Instead of following to her command i decide to end up my friendship as i do not like a demanding and manipulator pressuring me to follow her dictates. Though, a true friend need to be kind and very true to her feeling never dictate or brainwash a friend mind dominating and insist on her favor. It often lead me to rebel and started to make a distance even though she gives me a lot of favor i would still quit my friendship as i have my own mind who like to be free away from dictation. Though, just like the things you mention their may be little arguments which is still healthy as long as both reconcile after the fight. Though, the attitude which i do not like is those who only befriend you to use you as they have something to benefit for being your friend. They are the user and dishonest which really have no genuine intention to make friendship last.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
3 Dec 09
I had many fights with my college ones but we get along well the next day.we apologise to each other and thats it but the funny part of your fight is you started yelling out each others secrets which is not good coz this might create an issue and only makes your fight longer.but you were really lucky that you are both together now.gud day.
• Hong Kong
3 Dec 09
Hi rowdyrace, I have not experienced that before. I have not yet fight with anybody in the world, ha ha ha ha. Lucky me, isn't it! I think fight with friends mainly happens in men's world. It is so interesting that they fight and become friends again, and sometimes even better in the relationship. Of course, some friendship may be broken after such a fight. Chinese men do not often fight. They usually handle matters through discussions. My husband has never fight with anybody, too. It would be good to live in peace rather than fight. If you are good friends, don't try to hurt each other no matter physically or mentally. If once you really hurt your friends and cannot be healed, like the eye sight or the nerves on the face, then you will feel regret in your whole life. Cherish the friendship and live happily. Best wishes, agonyaunt69 (8:40pm 4 December 2009 Hong Kong time)
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
I did a couple of times. But we never got to the point where we fight physically. Mostly some small misunderstanding on our part. But after few days we will make up and forgive each other. One thing good about my friend is that she is a very nice girl.
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
yeah thats happened to me too, it is really a normal thing, but it is up to you guys to patch up all things .... learn how to say sorry and learn to forgive ... after all we are just humans and no one is perfect
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
I had a lot of it when I was still in college. Especially when both are intoxicated. Simple discussions ended up in heated arguments and ultimately in physical fights. Yeah, its common amongst college buddies and friends. But the important is that, the next day, we are still friends.
@OYGAK2005 (371)
• Saudi Arabia
3 Dec 09
yes ,i was did fighting with my best friend one time .at that time oue relationships commonly,,,,but since that time we became good friends!
@mawong79 (215)
• Malaysia
3 Dec 09
Well, I can't remembered if I have fight with my friend. I think I did not experience it with my friend. However, I did experience to arguing with my hubby. Everytime I have to stop discussion so that there is no serious arguments occurs between us. My hubby will try to said something until Im start talking back with him. So funny...sometime no matter what matter, if possible try to avoid serious argument so that our relationship with our hubby or close friend or family won't be down. Try to have loving and enjoy your life. Happy Always!
@azazel87 (97)
• Bulgaria
3 Dec 09
No, I never fight but sometimes I have rows with my friends. But it is normal because we are difference personality and we have difference point of view. If you want to be good friends you have to tell everything each other. No matter you agree or not with your friend you have to tell him what you think. If you do not express your feeling and ?pinion in the end you will explode and your friendship will over. But do not fight, its stupid.
@dadelkoy (37)
• United Arab Emirates
3 Dec 09
I think it is just normal to have a fight with a friend. In this way, you can easily be biased with your feelings. You can express your thoughts, be it positive or negative. Arguing is just part of it. It is not a matter of being rude or whatever but, as long as you can catch things up after a fight, the friendship bond will become stronger. True friendship can be measured on how you solved problems and indifferences together and what matters most is how you cope up with the fight. True friends are hard to find so we better keep the friends that we have now.
• India
3 Dec 09
hi friend we have not fight with friends. a true friendship is rare.
@puneet08 (102)
• India
2 Dec 09
Not exactly a fight but at times difference of opinion comes up, while we are discussing things heated arguments occurs. We have to stop discussion so that there is no fight between us. Just try to talk something else, if possible something funny. Best is we laugh at are arguments later on.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
Hi rowdyrace,No,ever since.I always listen to my friends and i did'nt experienced arguing with them.When we had topic to discuss,i used to listen ,and also expressing my side in a low tones.Never reach the point of arguing or fighting.I always respect my friends oppinion.That is why our friendship lasted for many long years. Thanks,God Bless!