what factors do you consider before getting married?

Philippines
December 2, 2009 10:07pm CST
marriage for me is one of the major decision that i would have to make in my life, and i guess there are factors that i must consider before going to the altar,one is that if i am really in love and be willing to devote myself to a person because i don't want divorce or separation,marriage is a sacred thing and it is worth cherishing and nurturing no matter what trials come both your ways..two is that, are we ready to face responsibility of building a family, what i mean is financial stability,that plays an important role for in this world it is much better to raise a family if you can provide the best of what you can give,and i also believe that marriage is a partnership,you must share ideas on everything before making any major decision that affects both of your future..how about you?
2 responses
@aguas_aj (498)
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
well, I agree with you. For me, I should be really in love with the guy as the same time the guy should love me enough that we can commit ourselves and compromise to whatever difference we have. 2nd, ready for responsibility. both for his self, me any any baby on the baby. 3rd, we have respect for each other. 4th, atleast have a stable job and lastly, my mother likes the guy. I believe that mothers knows best.
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
yeah...mother's instinct it is...commitment is really necessary to start marriage i think cuz i don't wanna be divorced or separated, with deep commitment i believe you can surpass all trials tha comes in your relationship,you will appreciate each other also if you are both faithful...never settle for only good,be the best for each other and i think we will achieve the happiest marriage everyone deserves...
@yan_blue8 (1437)
• Philippines
7 Dec 09
Hi musikaLorA! I think I'll go for someone who can love me and I love too. Responsible enough who can fight for me, no matter what happened and no matter what his family would say. We should be both financially stable to raise our children in the future and will be responsible for them too.