would you agree for an arrange marriage?

Philippines
December 4, 2009 12:14am CST
for me it depends on the situation. it would be lucky and it would be easy for the gila and the boy if since then they were friends already. and the most important thing if they like and love each other. and if the other hand it will be very difficult if the both the girl and the boy dont know each other but only thier family unite them. so, mylotters any opinions?
1 response
@raynejasper (2324)
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
..well, for me, definitely I don't approve it since everybody has the right to chose who to spend their life with for eternity.. Most of the time, arrange marriage leads to unhappiness of both parties since they are obliged to marry the person whom they don't really love.. as if they're not free to love somebody else.. However, in other countries, this is their culture and the children don't have any choice but to follow them.. others do this to preserve their wealth or to add more wealth to what they already have.. sometimes, they do this to preserve friendship also.. still, I don't agree with them even if it's a culture..
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
hola raynejasper. thanxs for your response.