Can a person be happy without their Girlfriend?

Philippines
December 4, 2009 11:35pm CST
My GF is in London. I miss her so much. and i love her so much. i had a sorrowful story in my life. I had a girlfriend before 10 months ago. our relationship last also about 10 months. i thought she will be last girl i will be forever. but all my thoughts were wrong. sad to say we broke up last Feb. i don't what to do at that time that she broke up with me because she found a new guy. we were very happy together before, but because of what she did. she totally destroy me. after four months of sorrow. I found my new girlfriend, and we have our relationship until now. we are together for 3 months and already 3 months in London. please advice me what will I do.
2 responses
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
7 Dec 09
hi Phynx29, A person can be happy without someone they love? really depends on the situation, often couples need to take risk for future plans, some do it for their own career, so they need to make sacrificial decisions in their lives.. Your problem is same with other relationships and the kind of relationships you had since from your Ex-Gf and the present one right now for 3 months, Is what we define as LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP.. that kind of relationship is the most crucial relationship, for a person involve in the situation feel alone, unhappy, unsatisfied or not contented in life. No one wanted or desired to be Far or away to the person you love.. The sense of touch and belonging longs for..in return resulted to depression.. The best advice I can give you, is that have a constant COMMUNICATION with her, exert more effort to know everything about her, often.. make her feel secure and assured of the love you offer for her, tell her all your feelings, hopes and wishes, make her feel that you are her NO.1 fan and supporter.. In short, DO Your best to prove her your love, that distance can never separate your love for each other but patience will prove if you are really meant.. That trust and God as your center will be the foundation and witness.. That, this time, is your time to be the best person you can be for her and that you hope she will do the same things for you. good luck,,
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
5 Dec 09
HI, i USUALLY HAVE THE SAME FEELING WITH YOU. As fas as I am concerned, I think the person needs a girl friend beside us. I think that way we can feel the happy in our body.And we do a lot of things can be full of passion.Our life need the element to help us. Happy mylot.