Are you in love?

@becdmd (704)
Philippines
December 5, 2009 9:46am CST
I want to know how many people in this site is in love... and even to people who is not in love...I'm sure you've been in love at some point in your life. I want to hear it from you guys, the feelings you have now or when you were in love, being in love is also sharing it to the people about the one you love right?...If you don't mind, why are you in love with that person? what are the qualities of that special someone made you fall for him/her. this is a very exciting topic...lovelife.
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25 responses
• India
5 Dec 09
Yes,I am In Love With My Hubby.Because Of His Good Sense Of Humor ,Caring,Understanding Nature and Always He Is There For Me :)
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
5 Dec 09
Great! having a sense of humor is one of the qualities that's really appealing to all women.
• India
6 Dec 09
all love talks are only illusionary nothing else to say about this rubbish
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
6 Dec 09
Hi, Madhur Do you really think that all talks about love is nonsense. Haven't you fallen in love ever in your life? Love is no nonsense. It is the only thing worth living for in this world and it is one of the purest thing one could feel.
@NIECIE21 (365)
• United States
5 Dec 09
Hi! I am very much in love with my boyfriend. I love him because he listens to me, supports me, makes me laugh, makes me think and he is my best friend.
• India
6 Dec 09
i think he is not your boyfriend he is your pet dog as you have described
@NIECIE21 (365)
• United States
6 Dec 09
Have you ever been in love? Every comment you have made here seems to be against love. And, no, this is not my pet, it is my man. And if I was describing my dog, it would be a different discpription
• India
6 Dec 09
yes he is doing every think for you. pls think how much u r doing all these things 4 him
• India
6 Dec 09
Yes im in love ..but will not be able to proceed with the guy i love..there are too many complicated issues..which i think will jeopardise my life..but is it necessary to marry that person if one is in love..can anybody answer that for me?..the qualities which attracted towards him ..well i really dont have n answer to that..just love to talk to him..thats all..
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
I think if you want to marry the guy, solve all the issues that will jeopardize your life...marriage is really necessary to make a vow to each other and to God that you will not leave each other for better of for worse..means to stick with him and nobody else but him.
• India
6 Dec 09
there is no necessarry to marry the same man. then pls say openly to him with reason and make him understand. otherwise u r destroying his life.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
6 Dec 09
hi becdmd well i see why this topic is interesting(i guess more interesting to you hehe)... uh huh i see you are asking the guys what they like in girls, hm?.. well i am sure you would love to hear from us guys here... well i am just 23 and i am a shy guy.. i haven't been much close with girls nor do i have many girl friends.. well if you ask me if i am in love now i would say i don't know, i have a very good friend of mine and we kinda text each other quite much, we also do talk a lot and fantasize like i am taking her in my arms to someplace beautiful and serene where there is no one to see us and we would have such a lovely time talking to each other admiring the beautiful atmosphere surrounding us... we talk to so much like this and we don't know what is happening in between us, i guess we are both shy to admit each other that we adore each other, i honestly don't know about this, she knows i like her very much and i know she likes me very much too, only thing is that i openly give signs that i like her but she is a little shy to imply and so she does a little indirectly(and i like that it's seems so cute to me^^) well we don't know what exactly this is but certainly it does sound like we are a little more than close friends coz we do talk a lot and text quite much, who knows we are acting like girlfriend boyfriend already but we are shy to say that to each other, shy to say hence just let it be that way and be like this with each other, it is so funny to think like this but hey once i leave the college where we both are studying we are sure going to miss each other, i am a senior to her 2 years in advance and she will stay behind while i pass out and i am going to miss her a lot then! even she will! we might be umm.. in love we don't know that for sure, i wouldn't admit her nor would she let me know, i guess we will keep continuing to be like with each other until the time when i will have to go away from her, a close friend she will always be to me and i to her and i will still be in contact but what happens next is left for the future.. when i leave her then we might express ourselves, this might sound a little strange but this is just my story . . well i don't know what i would call this, who knows it might be love...
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
Thanks for the response...hmm..it seems both of you are having a mutual understanding but I think you should be honest with her...so that you will assure her that you feel the same way too..so that she will be waiting for you and continue your relationship when the perfect time has come.
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
15 Dec 09
Hi becdmd, well i am honest with her and yeah we sort of have a mutual relationship between us and i am looking forward it can go forward, the thing i am quite sure of now is that we both like each other very much
• India
6 Dec 09
I am in love with my wife for the last 22 years.I love her because she has been my soul mate for such a long time. In the beginning there was definition of love- loving some attributes of hers, but with time it has changed to total love- I love her for what she is; all good and bad points included, there are no exceptions.She is a warm person by nature, but has a fiery temper which is generally short lived.It is during these times when she is angry that the rest of the family has to weather the storm.Otherwise,it is plain sailing.
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
wow 22 years! Just be patient...support her...I'm sure everything will be alright!
• India
6 Dec 09
oh that is super
• Indonesia
6 Dec 09
Yes I'm in love with someon but the girl's wishes that she want to be alone first... what shall I do?
• India
6 Dec 09
if she want to be alone so leave her alone why are you after her all the time ,give some space to her
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
hmm... I think she's not prepared to entertain a suitor..wait for her...be-friend her first.
• Philippines
5 Dec 09
Hi. I am in love with my husband. He is responsible and very understanding. He is a good provider for the family. Sometimes, he has a good sense of humor.
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
God bless you and your family.
@TashaT (14)
• United States
6 Dec 09
I am most definitely one of the very lucky girls that gets to be in love. I am so crazy in love that it makes me tingle just thinking about it. I stare into his eyes and as cheesy as it is I can see myself because I love him and see us as one more than two these days. I hope it stays like this forever. I know that love is hard and that it is work. Love is something thtat you have to surrendor yourself to 100% and vow to spend the rest of your life feeling that way. Once you do that... and as long as your partner does the same... I do not see how it could ever fail. I am so in love that everything imperfect feels amazingly perfect. I love that I am always completely myself around him and he loves me the same. I have never been more happy to stay in bed in the morning than everyday since I have been with him. I love the warmth of his skin against mine and the joy his smile brings to my face no matter what is going on. If there was ever a person in the world that I wanted to have eternally in my l,ife it would be him. When love feels like this it real and oh so very right. I hope everyone in the world feels like I do at least once in their life.
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
I think you should not surrender everything to your man...leave something for yourself, family and most esp. to God. I'm not saying I disagree with your feelings but just balance everything. You are definitely on a cloud 9! stay in love
5 Dec 09
I am madly in love with my fiancé. He's always there for me and does things he hates for our sake, I am so proud of him for doing everything he can to give us a better life as a family. He has taken on a lot with having to care for me but he takes it all in his stride. I've never felt as much for anyone as I do for him. I am lucky to have someone as loving, caring, funny, patient and understanding as him.
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
You're blessed to have him!
• Philippines
17 Dec 09
I am truly in love with my boyfriend. And I even think I am obsessed with him too. He is physically attractive which really attracted me before. But, that's not the only reason why I fell in love with him. He is a guy with full of sense. He is strong. He is funny sometimes. He makes me happy everyday. He is very considerate and kind to other people. I guess there are still a lot of qualities he acquired which made me love him so.
7 Dec 09
I have fallen in love with the same man 3 times, first is when i first laid my eyes on him, second is when we met again after 6 years and last is for staying with me thru thick and thin. :) love is a commitment and a gift you can give to yourself.
• United States
9 Dec 09
i've been with my boyfriend for three years, and yes, I'm in love with him. i wasn't in love with him at first. I wasn't even sure if I ever would be. But he's helped through some hard times and I've done the same for him... It brought us closer together. I love him!
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
15 Aug 10
I love my wife who was my soul mate lover for ever.We loved for 3 years and still we love as husband and wife.
• Philippines
17 Aug 10
I,m always in love with my girlfriend... I always want her to feel that I love her so much... everyday for us is a day to be inlove with each other over and over.. its a great feeling to be inlove... its like all of the awful things happened to me in a day will all vanish when I'm in the arms of my love...
• India
6 Dec 09
i am love with my girl,i dont have any answer if u asked why. no demands and no complaints
@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
6 Dec 09
hi there! Oh am I only the one in here whose not in love?! haha! If you are asking for "romantically in love with someone" ...dang! I am not.
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Dec 09
As far as I am concerned, I think,now I have not been in love with some other people.I am just a single person now. Though I have been with a girl ever.But at last justt because of the temperament,she live me alone. Happy mylot.
• India
6 Dec 09
Love word is different from the others if we talk about any words then it be sufficient that you have knowledge about that you can talk about more of that things but if I talk about Love then we have to be concern our mind and heart and then any conclusion we have to give about that so well in my case I don't know I am in Love or not but one thing I tell you that when we was togather then we have no time for each other because we study different colleges but still had good friends but she could not understand which was in my heart I try to tell her but I could not. so many years has been left and I think she will be happy for another one and also I want that but it is true still I love her and pray to god she will be happy whatever person with her and whenever. If it is love then we can say that I am in Love.
@tina256 (190)
• China
7 Dec 09
hi,becdmd. for me,ha,i don't fall in love tilli fall in love with him .now ,i am loving .this love have lasted 3 three years more .why fall in love with him .,at first ,maybe just because the feeling .and now ,know what is the person of him ,responsibility,romantic,passion ,patiently,etc.he wouldn't say so much ,he just do something for me.sure ,i will angry sometime .but ,to be frank ,the person like this is just what i want .he can stand by my side when i need him .ususlly ,he spend more time for his job,for this ,i think if were you ,you can't stand it .this is one i hate.yes,man should take attention to his job,but girlfriend also important .
6 Dec 09
i think i am. i don't really understand the way i feel for him. The worst is, his committed to someone and i think i don't have the chance. But stiLl i think im love to that guy.