My Soulmate
By CRIVAS
@CRIVAS (1815)
Canada
December 5, 2009 11:13am CST
I truely believe that my husband is my soulmate. We have been together for over 12 years and I have to say that our love for eachother grows stronger every day. I was sitting here having my morning coffee staring outside my front window, and I got to thinking. My husband must love our daughters and me very much, right now the weather outside is horrible and the news is telling us that if you don't have to leave your house, don't. I know that my husband has a few holiday days that he has saved up and he could very well have taken the day off work, but since he wants to spend Christmas andNew Years with us, he decided to brave the weather and head in to work. I know that he loves us with every little thing that he does with and for us. He is always considerate, and while there are times when we might dissagree, we never fight for long. Most men that I have met in my lifetime, don't like to talk about their feelings and their problems, however I thank my lucky stars that my husband isn't like that. He is always willing to talk through our problems and to work things out. He leaves me little love notes for me to find while he is at work and he always makes sure that me and the girls are happy before he worries about himself. So while thinking about all these things this morning, I decided to ask my friends here on mylot: What makes your husband or boyfriend special to you? Do you think that you were ment to be together? What would you do to make your man happy? What wouldn't you do? Why? How long have you been together? Do you feel like you know everything about each other? Or do you think that you are still learning? What makes you think that they are the perfect match for you? Dish girls, I want to know. Happy mylotting.
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4 responses
@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
5 Dec 09
I believe what you and your husband have is rare in this day and age of 'easily replaced with a newer model'. Congrats on finding each other.
My hubs and I have only been together for just over five years and married for four. As we are both on the downside of the 50's, we had to work very hard to adjust to each other and make our marriage work. At our age, we were already pretty 'grown up' and it took time and effort and flying close to divorce twice for us to get it right. The upside of that is, if we had been younger, we would have probably just split up. But time and age and waning energy kept us slogging on and eventually getting it right. I wouldn't call him my soul mate. But I can't imagine being married to anyone else.
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
22 Jan 10
Well this was a tough BR to earn! LOL But thanks anyway Crivas. It's a shame more people didn't respond. It would have been interesting to get a glimpse into our friends lives eh?
@username182 (35)
• United States
6 Dec 09
you know its right when youre in their arms
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@atv818 (1980)
• United Arab Emirates
14 Aug 10
I'm happy for you. It is very seldom for you to find your soul mate and marry them at this time and age. I love my husband and I know he loves me but after years of living together, some of that love has faded. We still care for each other and I can feel of the love we have for each other but the intensity had decreased.
I discovered my soul mate but unfortunately, we are both married and we can't live with each other because of our respective families. What I do right now is whenever I'm in need of inspiration, I just think of my soul mate. He inspires me to be at my best all the time.
Maybe we can be together in another lifetime.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
14 Aug 10
Well we loved for 3 years and i can tell my wholeheartedly he is the perfect and my soulmate. And now we are married and enjoying the life of togetherness!



