How do you tell him you cheated on him?

@aperez (13)
United States
December 5, 2009 12:09pm CST
My friend called me the other day crying. "How do i tell him? He's going to hate me? What do I say?" She had just cheated on her boyfriend of five years with her ex-boyfriend. I told her the usual. Sometimes people make mistakes, blah blah blah. But really i came to the conclusion that she shouldn't have to say anything. that unless she feels like she is going to marry this guy, who i dont think she should marry, but what do i know, she shouldnt have to say anything. the only person you need to be completely honest to is the one you will marry. Plus, this is the same guy who cheated on her last summer and didnt tell her about it either. So what now? two wrongs dont make a right, but how do you fix this one. Personally, i think the love might already be gone...why would you cheat if it wasn't? but to each his own. To tell or not to Tell, that is the question.
2 responses
@aauecon06 (204)
• Philippines
24 Mar 10
The good thing to do is to be honest because thats what a relationship is all about but since the guy had cheated too without telling her then I opt to be a devilish, lets call it quits (though it is a very shallow reason) :)
13 Feb 10
Call me shallow but this is something i believe your friend should keep to herself yes she cheated and obv there is a reason but everyone makes a mistake now and then just some peoples mistakes are bigger than others. If your friend wants to be with this man then i truly believe that telling him will cause way more problems than it will solve