Mindsets decided your life

China
December 5, 2009 7:24pm CST
My friends chated me before two days, she with good mindsets, she don't complain anything, with confidence, talent, doesn't scare to do anything. She decided to build up her business.She told me mindsets decided the people's life, and decided what life you will have. If you are confident, talent and with dream, and you can pay out your activity, you can did that, and you can have what you want. Hi, mylotters, do you agree my friend's opinion? Do you think the mindsets decided the life? Share your experience here.Nice day!
7 responses
@bairuv (102)
• India
6 Dec 09
mind sets means that adopt to the particular sitution.presense of mind and respose to every activity make succes.
@arunmails (3011)
• India
6 Dec 09
[b]Its not just mindset decides the life, there are many factors that decides how we are going to live, 1. Character 2. Mindset 3. Way of looking towards the life 4. How you Face everyday 5. How we treat your friends, enemies, relations, strangers(they may come across again in our life) 6. How we face your difficulties? 7. How we face your easy works? And even more factors that decides the life, not only just mindset..[/b]
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
6 Dec 09
hi bettydeng, your friend is quite right,mind set is very good for us,we have set our mind in a way that is rightway not in wrongway that will leads us to the goal and prosperity,i does not know your friend congratulate her on her mind set,have a nice day
• Philippines
6 Dec 09
Yes, i definitely agree with your friend! Everything else starts with a thought. You can do what your mind can conceive. The mind is very powerful. We tend to show a certain behavior because of how we think. If we are positive thinkers, we always expect the positive outcome of anything we do. If we are negative thinkers we are more inclined to expect negative things. That's why sometimes we fail because we expect to fail.
@sachii315 (488)
• Japan
6 Dec 09
Hi.. I definitely agree on mindsets deciding our lives. When it is perfectly established like having a positive outlook on life it could create a good incentive and can well improve our lives and attitude. But too much positivity could sometimes lead us to a perfectionist mindset, judging ourselves harshly and setting up standards that we could end up unable to dare trying anything without reaching the standards. There are many kinds of mindsets, there are good constructive mindsets, self-defeating mindsets, realist's mindset and etc. Still we had the choice to what would be our mindset or change our mindset for it could help us instead of hindering.
• India
6 Dec 09
Not always bettdeng, may be it works for her. My way is just to accept what comes my way. Of course, i stand by some principles in life. I never compromise on that. Before i begin the day, i lay down all my plans before God. God always wishes to bless us with the best gifts from heaven above unless we are ready to accept it. I have always received the best from Him. I have no complaints or regrets. I'm feeling full in life. If i have something in mind, i just pour it out to Him.
• United States
6 Dec 09
I think mindsets definitely do have a huge impact on your life because they affect what you think about and how you look at certain situations everyday. If you had a negative attitude, all you would be focusing on is the negativity or the bad side of every situation, of everything that happens in your life and thus, you will have a bad view of life. If you focused on the positives and all the good things in your life, of course you will feel happier and less stressed because you don't worry about things like that so much. I can't really say that mindsets decide your life because you can change your mindset whenever you want. It's up to you to change it. But I can say that mindsets have a huge influence on how your future will turn out, which is why it's important for us to have the right attitude if we want to be successful or happy (or both =D). I hope this helped you out a little bit =]