is being single will make you happy? yes or no? why?

I am a single and happy. I had boyfriends before and it doesn't really suits me. For these reasons 1. I don't really need a guy telling what I can do/ what I can't to do around other people 2. I feel eased I don;t ever have to worry about where he is/ what if he is cheating on me/ why haven't he call back

When someone asks me this, I tell the same thing over and over again. Being single has its advantages, you make your own way of things without the interference of anybody, you are free and that makes you happy. But being in a relationship eliminates the empty feeling you felt when you were single. The feeling that makes you think, I lack something. That feeling of emptiness makes one sad, and I went through that before I had my first, last, and current relationshipe with my long time boyfriend. I hope you find that someone who completes you hehe, I got that line from a movie, I forgot what movie, but you are a Filipino to so you would know that, 'you complete me' line.

Do you think you are alone? I have seen many who are highly intelligent, smart and pretty and yet they have no someone to cherish. Not for the reasons they are being choosy or no one likes them. Finding love is a matter of destiny as believe by those fanatics though it could be quite possibilities that some are not being notice because they are shy, never likes to go out and although they like to have a sweetheart of their own they could not do so. because of the lack of social interaction and sometimes the person meet at the wrong time and have other priorities in life that they never values having a relationship. Though, at your age you are still young as in our society their is an stigma associated for being single that a person who is not yet attached for a long time have been call as a future spinster which further aggravated the desire to find a partner just to prove to others that they are attractive or someone like them. i could say that you should not worry about your status it is the merriest time to be happy as you could do anything you ever like without hoping for someone to approve. Though, having and hoping to have a partner is a very exciting period being a couple does not really guarantee eternal companionship but the experience on having a relationship is tremendous have an effect on the personal and emotional growth. It still a positive hope that you would find a partner sooner as you wish for..goodluck..

hi bunny, How are you? I just hope you are feeling better right now. Okay, I am single like you and I am 26 years old.lolz.. For me, being single is an okay thing, I mean... I am happy right now and I live my life to the fullest, I give more time for myself and family, as well as friends and other stuff. I know how you feel and there is nothing better than having someone to love. But life doesn't stop from there....we can still be happy in life. There are so many things in this world that can make us happy. Sometimes, it is more about how our minds tell us about love, we often get jealous without any valid reason. As you say it, you are in pain seeing a couple whose in love. But to think it over, it is sometimes our choice...if we choose to be happy then, we will. If we demand so much in life, the more possibility of us to get upset and be sad. You are still young, don't get pressured about getting into relationship because you are getting old....the reason for being in love is not based on that. For me, it isn't something that we can ask, find or search for...I would love to be found and be loved..and to love at the same time. Hope you'll find happiness in life. happy lotting!

since i had a girlfiend being single maked me happy and noth happy that i dont have any obligation to any one but made me sad when i saw on holidays or diferent ocasion's that everyone has a date but after i got together whit my actual girfriend i was extremly happy and i think that since i met hear and showd me the beauty to have a relationship i can stand to stai 1 dai single :D

i really feel that being single is not that bad as you think but i personally think i don't want to be single. Being in love is such a great feeling that everyone have to get it at least once in their lifetime and i really feel you can also get one . its just that you still didn't find that right person till now. I am sure in your near future you will find the right guy out.!!

You are not alone in this world like you I'm also single since birth. I don't know maybe I'm not that attractive to guys but I don't mind it at all. I'm a bit jealous also when I see couples outside. I'm still afraid to love someone because of my experience in the past I fell in love with the guy that don't have a feelings for me. So I keep my feelings to myself and I don't know when I'm going to find the right guy for me. Be happy to be single although sometimes I get irritated to my relatives when they keep asking why up to now I don't have boyfriend because some of my younger cousins already have a family. Patience is a virtue and I hope you going to find your Mr. Right like me in the future.

In my case yeah...Oh i see...so your single since birth...so that means were on the same track...I'm also a member of NBSB...LOL,NO BOYFRIEND SINCE BIRTH...why does it seem to me that we have a lot in common?Like easily falling inlove to somebody but then the only difference is although i have those feelings as much as possible i try not to show it to the person i love...i dunno maybe one of the reasons is that I'm afraid to commitment...afraid of not being a good girlfriend to him or whatever....i have a lot of hang ups...that's why until now i don't have one..but you al least you have flings...

...Hi bunnygurl011285, I hope that you find what ever it is that makes you happy. Not every one is cut out to be single. I have read a few posts here where people are afraid to be alone, they feel they must be with someone. I think that leaves one in a sad state, because they feel they are unable to enjoy life if they are alone. My thought is that you have to be happy by yourself and with yourself before you can be happy with someone else. Loneliness to me is a state of mind. Loving yourself helps you to love others. Love will find you,I am positively happy in my single state, I travel alone, being careful, I enjoy going to the movies alone, I am a happy person and I love to laugh. Life is to be lived, single or otherwise. Take care always.

Hi bunny gurl: hola! I think tehre's not a definitive answer to this question. I think you can be happy being single but at the same time we, the human beings need love, it's part of our nature. When you are married you need to make some sacrifices, marital relation is not a honeymood you know, you need to be tolerant, respect your partner, you need to deal to daily issues together and you need to keep working for your love but at the same time it gets their benefits. If you think you need to find someone well, just be yourself and you'll find the one for you in a moment but that's not the only thing that can make you happy. Have a nice day. Hope you find the one for you. Alvaro.

Hi. Being happy as a single individual depends on the person itself. If the person chose single blessedness as a devotion, I believe that person would be truly happy and contented being single all his/her life. If not, then that person would not be happy because he/she would always long for companionship.

It's not the end of the world. There;s a lot of great opportunities waiting for you out there . Being single is not a crime.. Just go on with your life and live happy with your family and friends. I am three years single but still i found myself happy with my life right now and contented. No more pain, and worries. My life being single is better now rather than having a boyfriend who'd always do is make me cry and break my heart. someday you'll find someone better for you. Just don;t stop hoping,praying,and loving. Keep your heart open.. Cheer up! Just enjoy being single. Life is so short. so,go go, and enjoy it. god bless!

I know what you mean bunnygurl, when I'm single I'm soooooo lonely :( It just makes it so much better to have someone to keep you warm at night, pick you up when you're down, and just always be there for you. But you need to learn to love yourself, and be content with being with yourself too, and be able to pick yourself up. When you learn that people seem to like you alot more and are alot more attracted to you because you're independent.

Hi. I do understand your situation though we are in a different case. I am in a relationship for many long years already. But, it didn't give me any reason not to understand you. Sometimes, people say, it's really good to be with someone you love because we can feel warmth and comfort. On the other hand, being single doesn't mean nobody wants to be with you. Maybe, you still haven't met the perfect guy (who will accept you for what you are) for you. Just wait and keep on believing. Just enjoy being single because once you will have a serious relationship, you'll surely miss it...lol...Be happy with all the things you have now...;-)

hello there bunnygurl ., well to be honest with you i am also single ., but i just broke up recently with my long time bf ., so sad but i would say it is not that bad to be single ., actually i am really enjoying it right now ., i think the key is you have to be happy ., you have to make something that will make you happy even without someone. no pretentious ., :D and one thing i can say about entering into a relationship if ever you plans ., just love yourself more than anyone else ., :D cheers! single is IN! :D