My love is prohibited by partner's parents.

December 6, 2009 7:23am CST
My partner said that i was not proper enough to be a marriage partner of him because of his parents' disagreement. His parents want their son to choose the best woman to be his partner, I'm not so. What should i do??. In contrast, we really have found our love from this deep relation. We do not want to separate. I'm confuse now... Could u all give suggestion to me???
2 responses
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
7 Dec 09
Your situation is very controversial to the parent of your loved one..But, may they be reminded that their son also do not want to separate with you as you stated in this discussion, There is a big confusion to both of you..When people around you are not in favor and it is hurting for any person may be in your situation, and directly say that they do not aspire you to be the partner of their son.. I empathize with you and how you feel.. I guess both of you should make the FINAL DECISION in your lives, at this point where the issues are getting bigger already and to avoid much bigger problems, as well for both of you be relieved also.. If he truly loves you then I guess He know what to do. He know his family well than, and I guess before both of you engaged in that commitment, all those possible issues both of you might encounter had tackled already, It is better if both of you discuss this matter seriously and choose the options that will cause less pain to any parties.. It is very hard for a parent to accept it easily for what both of you stand for but the solution there is in your partner.. because you are the one being emotionally hurt.. This is the time for him to prove to you, what he got and decisions, opinions and solutions..and lastly, where will you stand .. If ever, things may not come as what expected in your plans, I hope you will accept it with a wide understanding and never loose hope.. Move on and prove them what you can be in the future.. Take this trial in your life as strength for you to be able to face the upcoming challenges in life.. No one can judge
8 Dec 09
both of me and my partnert have made a final decision. It was separating our relation. Because the problem is too principle and can not be overcome. Thanks for u'r suggestion.
@Drsunny21 (556)
• India
6 Dec 09
Tell your partner to talk with his parents...and try to convince them...If he really loves you then he should convince his parents...My sitaution is like you...My gf is of different religion and her parents will not allow for us marriage,and my gf is afraid to ask her parents...So i had leave evrythng on God...Gud Luck