I m feeling Blue...........It was not a good day.

India
December 6, 2009 11:48am CST
Right now i really feeling blue....Lonely..Listening emotional romantic songs,making me feel like crying..Today my gf had planned to come at my home but her uncle came to visit her and so she cant come and she has to go wth her uncle and i cant msg her also because of restriction...I m missing her..I helped each one whenever anyone need me,i m always there for them..And now or whenever i need anyone there are no one...I dont know what is going on??I m not feeling sad...I badly need someone...:-(...Take care frnds....
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7 responses
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
6 Dec 09
Hello Drsunny, You are getting too much emotional. Well,you can hang out with friends instead of having self pity and thinking alone. I know sometimes we felt to bad and sad when we are alone. But,having self pity is not good at all. Try to make yourself busy with other things rather than feeling lonely.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
7 Dec 09
@ Drsunny, it is really sad then,you are literally all alone in that place. Maybe you can watch some comedy movies.
• Boston, Massachusetts
7 Dec 09
I agree with you jaiho. listening to mellow and romantic music will just aggravate the sadness. it will really help to call a friend to hang with you home or for you guys to go out and have fun! it's all about us and our choices to make ourselves fine and happy despite the feeling so down and low.
• India
7 Dec 09
Yes you are right but i dont have any frnds here...This is more painful thing tht i have lot of frnds but no one near..all in different cities....Thank you frnds.
• United States
6 Dec 09
Friend, everything's rough all over, I guess. =( I myself am having a bad... week, or should I say month, overall. I've been through three deaths since the past month, two of my family and one of my best friend. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IZrRwNFRMkQ I've been listening to this for quite a long time, because it sounds really soothing and I can recall the good things in life and not just mourn forever over the sorrows. Hope you have a better day.
• India
7 Dec 09
Sorry...Thank you.
• India
7 Dec 09
Thanks for tht video...The music is really very beautiful...
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
7 Dec 09
Why can't you message her....why the restrictions? Sorry. I don't know your story and wy you and your girlfriend are apart. I hope that soon you will be able to see each other. Rather than feeling sad, you should be planning a romantic get-together for when you finally can be together. This would help you pass the time.
• India
7 Dec 09
Its ok....Yes there are restriction....Its a long story..Yes i would plan out like this...Thanks.
• Boston, Massachusetts
7 Dec 09
Hi DrSunny, It will help if you can change the type of music that you are playing. you may love listening to romantic and mellow music but it will make you more blue. please try playing a more upbeat music so that you will feel active and in anyway happy. not seeing your girlfriend is just temporary, give more time to yourself, take this as a break for both of you to breath freely and when you find the chance to be together again it will more love and fun!
• Boston, Massachusetts
9 Dec 09
that's the right attitude friend...you are open to change. so it will be a happy and upbeat music now to relive you from loneliness and feeling blue. i can imagine you smiling and humming with the music and on the third song you will fell better!
• India
7 Dec 09
I like to listen every kind of music but dont know when ever i feel like this i used to listen sad songs...But i should change coz it really aggravates my feeling..
• China
7 Dec 09
hi,drsunny,try to go out and meet with one of your friends. people easy to be sad when he is alone. you need one friend to talk with you and let you forget your lonely,i understand you are missing your gf,while,she will be happy when she know you are happy too,she will be worried about you if she know you are upset.
• China
8 Dec 09
helle drsunny,do you have collegues around you,if so,try to make friends with them even you are not familiar with them. the strangers will become your friends only when you spend time to accompany with them.
• India
7 Dec 09
As i told the problem is tht i dont have any frnds here and so it feels bad,insipte of having a big frnd circle no one is near....Thank you...
• United States
7 Dec 09
hi guys
• India
7 Dec 09
Hello Welcome to mylot....Happy mylotting.
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
6 Dec 09
hi Drsunny21, Gee, that was sad knowing that the person who will make your day sunny cannot come over to your home for valid reasons, then suddenly really turned your day blue.. I am sure that you really miss her a lot..If you miss her for bit hours what more in a day right? Do you feel like when you need someone to talk to? there is no one you can turn up too? well, think positive my friend, that spare time when there is nobody to be at your side is the perfect way for you to think peacefully and go on with yourself thoughts and plans..this is the time you can talk to God and release all your honest feelings.. There was this saying that, In GOD you can trust, can tell all, for he is a good secret keeper, but in humans? there would always this possibility your trust may be broken.. The choice of a friend is very huge, but it matters on the doors who will open for you and a good friendship..sometimes, friends are there when we need most, but there are instances in life that, We cannot count on them but on ourselves and God only.. these things happening to you are part of life undertakings..just think that tomorrow is another great day for you and the sun will rise and shine for you.. so, Cheer up..
• India
7 Dec 09
Yes i missed her lot...And yes when i need someone to talk there is no one,no one....It feels bad..Before going to sleep i pray to god and tell everythng and He solves every problem but still as a human nature so it the feeling stay for sometime...Yes tomorrow will be a great day...Thank you very much.