Did you ever REGRET fallin inlove?

Philippines
December 8, 2009 6:52pm CST
I heard some people regret having to fall in love, they said it was a waste of time and effort. They said they just love and got hurt and what good is that?! Some people really regret falling inlove. How about you?! I never regret falling inlove even if i did got hurt. Getting hurt isn't really all that bad yes it sucks but then again you live and you learn. Having to feel that hurt makes you feel alive. I learned from my mistakes and i'm happy i have been through falling inlove. Up until now. Its like i'm cupids test subject.
20 responses
• United States
9 Dec 09
In a sense I can say yes because it hurts so bad and the pain seems like it will never go away. Expecially when you think in your mind this person will never hurt me and they keep saying, "I love you." So, you believe it, not really knowing what love really is or have experienced real love in your life. Its hard to accept and forgive someone for what they have took you through and how they have hurt you. The most hurtful part is when a child is involved, because they do not deserve this, they did not ask to be here. You would think that people would not be so selfish. Then you give all you have for nothing in return. The only good thing that is left that is holding you two together is the child in which you love so dearly and the father love so dearly. I do believe God has a way of working everything out for the good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose and plan.
@mmajay (15)
• India
9 Dec 09
Falling in love is such a great moment and feeling. I never regret falling in love. Mostly those people regret falling in love who are possessive or to whom their ego is more important than love. It's true in love sometimes such moments appear because of which you got hurt. But it teaches you a lot about real life, real feeling of happiness.
• United States
9 Dec 09
No I don't regret ever thinking I was in love. I've learned something from each relationship. They have taught me what I want and don't want what I need and don't need. Plus given me two sons I love dearly. Those relationships have made me the strong person I am today. Hurt is just an emotion that we all deal with at one time or another it passes and life does go on, and always for the better.
• Romania
9 Dec 09
i regret fallin in love whit my girlfriend i thought that its going to be the love of my life but i fell so hard 4 here and she started to take advantage and soon make my sufer :( she is toying whit me alwais i dont know what to do
• India
9 Dec 09
yes for me falling in love is a big regret,its just wastage of time because at the end of it u wil be betrayed by ur parnter and you for someone else...its fact of life...JUST REMEmBER IT...
@ipod28 (23)
• China
9 Dec 09
love is one of the greatest thing in the world though may be you are hurt you benefit more from love so it is fool to regret when we have love we should enjoy it and miss it when we dont
• India
9 Dec 09
Yeah one time in life ,unlikly i fall in love with a boy who dosent love me,i get disappointed for a long period i felt Love is other name of hurt/pain,fourcefuly i tried to get him,Suddenly After Some time i realize i am wrong! probably i am not good for him or he is for me,thats Why God never bind us in relationship, God is waiting for right time to give me right person. and YOU know when i realize all this.... when MY right person comes to Me and He teach me the fair lesson of LOve ..its matter of giving not receving.
@elokps (138)
• Indonesia
9 Dec 09
I never regret having fall in love even I got so many hurt but it's ok , I keep on trying. I think it's a risk of fall in love he..he..he.. If you ready to fall in love then you have to be ready to get hurt. But if you regret to fall in love you will never feel how sweet is love. Life without love is empty. Better get hurt after fall in love then never feel love.
@aguas_aj (501)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
there are days I regret that I fall in love, but there are days that i don't. maybe because there are days that it is just to much to handle and sometimes, It keeps on repeating the mistake that repeats the pain that I feel. But more over, I don't regret the things I learned from it
@agv0419 (3027)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
I've been in love before yes sometime is also painful to love someone that doesn't love you but I never regret to love someone. At least I prove that I'm a normal person too it is how life goes. Loving someone is also has consequences you might get hurt or disappointed.
• Malaysia
9 Dec 09
Yes, I did regret once...it was very stupid because I fell for the wrong guy. It was a lesson I will not forget, for all the ladies out there don't let any men emotionally torture you. I am so glad that I dumped him for someone new...he deserved it!
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
amen!.go man!!.. hahaha.. now thats good to hear that you are not hesitant to fall in love.. but are you falling in love with your games?? hahah.. lol
@ravesam (33)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
once you've love expect that you should get hurt..and do not afraid in loving just give the best you can for you not to regret everything that happened to your life.
• China
9 Dec 09
My answer is one of the strange ones,i've never regret having to fall in love,because i have not fallen in love...
@rleankus (113)
• India
9 Dec 09
Hello there.The answer is a big NO.Being in Love was one of the best thing that ever happen to me.Even if it turned out to be something bad doesn't mean that all that I had before was a waste.As you said getting hurt sucks and we do make mistakes but its this pain and mistakes that we make which makes us to be someone who knows how to make things right.
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
I never regret in falling in love what I regret is when I will be fall-out of love or even worst the cause of a broken relationship while my partner is so in love. I just don't like to hurt feelings of people.
@ckyera (17342)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
hello icetroll! nope! i never regret falling in love for it is such a wonderful feeling! although we may get hurt upon falling in love, but that's just part of it...and this pain is nothing as compared to the joy that we feel when we fall in love... as they say its better to love & lost than to never loved at all... and besides its also a great feeling to love and be loved... have a nice day!
@smileonstar (4012)
• United States
9 Dec 09
hi, you could be right... but sometimes I feel that I am regret about love. love is hurt but I have been hurt for over 6 years now... and nothing to change and nothing to learn anymore. I have given many chances to a man I love but seem nothing work. well, now I dont care and I dont want to be involve with love anymore... is that something I learn? may be yes. I still in the relationship for my other reason and I will stay this way until he realized on himself.
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
Hi. I have no regrets falling in love. My relationship with my husband has been put to test several times. We're not happy at all time. Yet, I treasure all those experiences - good, bad, happy, sad. All those experiences have made us become more well-rounded individuals.
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
Hi there, no is the answer, I never regret falling in love. I've been in love for many times, and many times I've also been hurt. But it's all worth it, I learn from what I have experienced. Love is not always a state of happiness, sometimes love gives us pain. Sometimes it breaks our heart to make it whole again. I think everyone should not be scared of falling in love, there is more to life... Live, Laugh, and Love.