When is the right time to let go?

Philippines
December 8, 2009 9:21pm CST
When is the right time to end up a relationship?
1 person likes this
11 responses
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
hey rayne.. i dont really know exactly.. i guess it depends on your situation.. i think you should elaborate more on what happened so as we can help you whether to save your relationship or i guess just end it..
• United States
9 Dec 09
yes I agree, please elaborate.
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
yeah totally.. how can we really help you out if you dont really explain the situation.. you have to tell some parts of the story so that we can suggest a good ending to it.. right?? but then again if he cheated on you then just let him go.. there are no second chances for cheating scums.. lol
• Philippines
10 Dec 09
..well, with all the ideas and insights, I think they are more than enough to help me.. I'm sorry but I can't elaborate more on this.. but then, thank you really.. all your ideas helped..
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
hello rayne, I believe the only time to let go is when it is impossible to keep it due to some unresoved difference, conflicts,arguments and lastly third party. it can be pain ful at first, because when two really love each other. there's nothing that they can't do to work it out, if it's impossible, then they have no choice but to end it.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
I don't think if there is a right time to end up relationship because in my view. It depend on the situation that two people facing a problem or trouble in their relationship... It is better to find ways that to think an ending a relationship...
@simonelee (2715)
• China
9 Dec 09
Hi, there. I don't know if there's what you call "The right time to break up". If you are tired and the relationship is unhealthy, go on, end it as soon as possible before it causes so much pain. But there are lots o things to consider before you bid goodbye to your partner. Saying goodbye is not that easy. We can't deny that there is still love left in the heart even if you want to let go of that person and it so hard to see the person hurt while you utter that word. If you are planning to break up with your partner you have to think for it hundred times if you really want it. Don't make decisions if you feel anger and hatred towards him/her because it will surely lead you in a wrong decision. and might regret it.
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
"Never!". I remember the movie Mexican (Brad Pitt & Julia Roberts) had these lines were spoken, "When you think that enough is enough, would you break up the relationship?" The answer is "never!". I really don't know the exact words spoken but I knew that its something to do with the love you have for that person. Better to watch it again, its a good movie you know. Damn, love Julie's smile on that movie.
• Malaysia
9 Dec 09
If it's just a girlfriend boyfriend situation I think the right time to end the relationship is when there are too much pain and it is causing emotional damage to both parties... If it is a marriage, seek help, don't give up too soon.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
9 Dec 09
Hi ray! When you feel that other fellow has started ignoring you on a regular basis and the other fellow is not paying any attention towards you or your desires, then it is better to end up a relationship.
• China
9 Dec 09
It ususally hurts much to end a relationship, but it is a thing we have to face in our lives. Throughout our lives, we are looking for the right one for us, and it's often impossible that the first one we find will be the speical one in all our lives. So when we know the speical one is not actually the speical one for us, we must think of ending the relationship. Take me for example, if my boyfriend has a little in common with me regardless of times we quarrel, I think it's the right time to end the relationship. By looking for a spouse, we're looking for someone who really understands us, epseically mentally, psychologically and emotionally.
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
The right time probably depends upon the situation itself. If the relationship brings you too much pain and sufferings and only one of you is doing something to work it out; when the relationship is a sin - obviously you have to get out of it before you regret anything in the future; and when the relationship is killing you and hurting you badly - to love is to also love yourself. Love is not about hurting each other nor bringing pain to each other. If love does not exist anymore then that's the best time to let it go.
@ravesam (33)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
well,only you can dicide when you are going to end it up..The right time for ending a relationship it depends on you and your partner.
• United States
9 Dec 09
when there's something big wrong, like he hurt you or cheated or something... not when something small happened like he forgot to kiss you. Don't over think about the little things. Give yourself a chance to trust that person. And if there is something wrong, don't just drop them. Talk with them. Keep a cool head and explain things thoroughly. Don't just come up slap him say "It's over." and walk off. Metaphorically.