Restraining oneself from talking
@allknowing (153544)
India
7 responses
@connie2011 (1)
• China
14 Oct 11
You can say of course as long as you disturb other's work and life.
It's a good way to relieve your feelings, espicially you run into somethint what let you down, then you may feel better.
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
11 Dec 09
My nature is talkative type. I cannot remain silent for long. At the same time, it depends on where I am and with whom I am talking to. But generally people say that I will make even a tree talk. I do not find any hesitation to talk to strangers.
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
11 Dec 09
Hi all!
It is nice of you that you wish to express and come out with your thoughts rather than keeping your emotions and feelings hidden. It is always better to release pent up emotions to make oneself calm and cool. I also do like-wise and share my joys and sorrows with my friends/relatives.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Dec 09
allknowing it does indeed depend on what you are going to say and to whom, sometimes staying pent up is the wisest course as you cannot undo angry words once they are spoken. but if you can be helpful or constructive with the other person then let yourself un pent yourself. but be wise and do not just spout out hateful words. think first.




@abhikmjmdr (779)
• India
11 Dec 09
I rather believe in the old adage "if speech is silver, silence is golden".I am an introvert and do not like talking to much.However, I am a good listener and get to hear a lot of things as people tend to confide in me. I rather like this arrangement as I am not a good talker and invariably end up saying the wrong things when I do open my mouth to speak.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Dec 09
allknowing hi It depends on what you are talking about and to whom you are talking. To keep some things pent up might be'
wise as you cannot undue words that are said too quickly and
often in anger. at least take ten deep breaths and reason with
yourself first as to whether or not it is wise to talk a lot.if it is constructive or helpful that is one thing, or you see someone doing something that could get them hurt emotionally or even physically do talk and get it all out.but if its vindictive or hateful think first.










