friends that are gone

I are here....

I don't have any friends, not even on myLot! Who cares! I never add anybody but when they ask to be added I do it. I've always wondered why friends are important? I'm my own best friend, and I am darned sure my best friend will always be there for me. Consequently I never look at (my friends list), and would never dream of deleting anyone, especially if they had not responded for a year or two. What difference could it possibly make?

I know what you mean Pat, a lot of mine have gone to but I am keeping them on my list in the hope that they might come back I do miss them as we all started here together about the same time

Dear savypat, I'm also facing same situation. Some of my friends are no longer active in myLot. May be some of them lost forever. I sent personal message to them. Some of them replied and said they are in problem or very busy. They gave me hope they will return soon. Some did not replied to my message. But I didn't delete any of them from my friend list. I'm waiting for their come back. In their place I'm adding new friends.

It's been forever since I wentv through my friends list. I probably need to do it.

I do the same thing, as I have to take the time to go through mine as well. I have deleted a few already, and ther ewill be probably lots more. I don't understnd why they ask to be our friends, but they never intend to be active. That is the first thing I check is their activity, and if there is none for 60 days, I delete them as well. Chances are they haved decided to leave mylot for one reason or aother, so they just aren't active. I won't waste keeping them as friends if they aren't going ot be active. I have a lot of friedns, so it is going to take a long time to go through all of them and delete the inactive ones. Good luck to you and happy mylotting.

I have not done a random check on my list yet. So my friends have been there from day one. I have few who are missing in action for a long period of time but suddenly reappear. But they are no less people in my list whom I have accepted still having zero activities. I might have to delete them as keeping them serve no purpose when they are only sleeping partners.

I must do the same with my friends list, even if I just get rid of the avatars of those who no longer have an account, it would be a start. I have heard that if you delete a lot of people you lose earnings; I don’t know if that is true but I saw a discussion about it a while ago. I worry about ‘lost’ friends too and I do try to contact the ones that I can to see if all is ok; it’s a concern when someone is very active and suddenly they disappear!

I think most of us do this kind of "house cleaning" now and then. It helps hold down the clutter, and makes it easier to maneuver on any site...or even in my personal computer files :) I also worry when online friends simply disappear. I always wonder...hope they're okay. Karen

hi pat, i hope am still in your list. i havent been very active lately. my computer broke down and i could not have a new one yet. so i get to borrow ones in a while, or go to internet cafe. ann