Teacher cuts Braid off of First Grader

@lelin1123 (15595)
Puerto Rico
December 15, 2009 3:51pm CST
This is unbelievable and I'm glad I'm not the parent of this child. A lst grader in Milwaukee was playing with her braids when the teacher said to stop. She kept playing with it when the teacher asked her to come up to her desk. The teacher said she was going to give her candy and instead cut the braid and threw it in the trash.The little girl went back to her desk crying while the other kids watched and laughed at her. The teacher then asked her "now what are you going to tell your momma"? The little girl replied "That you cut off my hair". When confronted by the parent the teacher apologized and claimed she was frustrated. The teacher was fined $175.00 for disorderly conduct. A person who gets frustrated over a little girl playing with her braids in the first grade should not be a teacher at all. What do you think? What would you have done if you were the parent?
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28 responses
• United States
15 Dec 09
NO WAY. She should have been fined a lot more than $175 and let me tell you, I think the teacher should have had to have HER hair cut off. No teacher who gets annoyed at a poor little girl playing with her hair would make it as a teacher that long... you'd have plenty of bald little girls!!!My daughter was looking into this med school, for her future one time (she decided in the future, it's not the best school for her), but anyway the counseler told her that all the teachers at the med school LOVE what they're doing and she didn't understand why teachers would take a job if they hated kids so much. You spent your time in college to become a teacher, so why waste so much time if it's something you hate that much????!
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
15 Dec 09
You are so right. If you don't have the patience or you don't like kids why are you studying to become a teacher in the first place. Its so unbelievable that she did such an act on a child like that. I seriously think she needs some mental help and not be allowed in the classroom till she gets help. Thanks for responding.
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• United States
16 Dec 09
I don't even think she should be in a classroom if she DOES get help. If you need help to be a teacher after you've gone to school for it, there is a serious problem with that picture.
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
15 Dec 09
This teacher is so wrong on two counts. She had no right to cut the little girl's hair and she lied to the little girl. The hair fiddling probably only distracted the teacher not the little girl. Sometimes kids find comfort in different things. The teacher should have been suspended because she couldn't handle annoying children because they all are annoying at some time. When my granddaughter was in first grade the teacher had a very difficult time keeping her on task She always found what the other kids were working on more interesting than her own work. The teacher even tried separating her from the class by putting her in a refrigerator shipping box all to no avail but she did ask us for permission first.But cutting the girls hair is totally different and uncalled for. One of my grandsons found comfort with the tags on his shirts and he was always fiddling with them so she proceeded to cut them off his clothes that he wore to school. This is destruction of another person's property so shouldn't be tolerated either.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
15 Dec 09
I'm so angry about this story. I think a fine of $175 dollar is to little for punishment. She needs to be taken out of the classroom and needs to get some counseling before she is able to come back into the classroom. If she can't or won't get the help then her license to teach should be revoked. Thank you so much for responding.
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
16 Dec 09
Wait.. let me get this straight. Say I have a daughter, I let her hair grow beautifully and one day she comes home crying saying that the teacher has cut off a chunk of her hair. Certainly not cool in my book of conduct and I think she deserves the fine there. A teacher/educator should have the most coolest temperament and if one is allowed to cut hair, what one would do on the morrow? Cut what else? That's quite scary, really. No matter how frustrated the teacher is, she should not have done that, in my opinion. I would be furious too, if I were the parents, but if the apology is really genuine, I think should be alright.. but it would take long moments to grow that hair again. Hmmmmmmp.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
18 Dec 09
That's right; she would have a very bad emotional scar from this.. pity her..
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
16 Dec 09
I think even with an apology that would still not sit well with me. I'm sure this little girl is going to carry this with her for a long time. Thanks for responding.
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• United States
16 Dec 09
OMG!! I would have ended up in JAIL myself....Ida beat that teacher to a pulp! Heaven help the teacher that tries to touch my child.... But not soooo long ago that wasnt so uncommon was it? I remember once when i was in first grade i had one of those battle axe teachers and she called on me to answer something just at the exact moment i got an itch on my chin and i went to scratch it and the next thing i know this teacher grabs me by the arm...says i was being rude to her and throws me in the dark coat closet where she made me stay all day.... for gods sake i was just scratching an itch....it was years later before i even realised how scratching your chin could be misconstrued as a rude gesture but i knew nothing about that gesture then.... I used to be a nurses aid and you have to go through all kinds of background checks before you can work around old people....it seems there should be more stringent requirements for teachers....just cause you spent 4 years in college doesnt make you good with children!
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• United States
17 Dec 09
Well...I only had one parent...my mother...and she was VERY abusive to us as well....so i never told her anything!!! The thing is you know that stupid teacher percieved something that wasnt even there and punished me for her own misconception....I am 49 now and i know all about the rude gesture of flicking your hand across your chin at someone....but back in first grade i had NO clue about that at all...i simply had the misfortune of an itch on my chin at the precise moment she looked my way....I had no idea why i was suddenly flung into the coat room like that...... But then back then teachers were allowed to get away with that kind of stuff on a regular basis...it wasnt like it is now....and that was a public school too! To cut a childs hair though really took some cohones!!! I mean hair takes a long time to grow back and most often at that age your parent control how you wear your hair not you so her parents probably wanted it long...what right did that teacher have to do that? Not to mention the public humiliation of the poor child! And beside...in certain religions the length of you hair is very important..what if that girl had been a member of one of those religions? What amazes me is that teachers still try to get away with this stuff even though you see them being punished for these things in the news every day.....do they think the child wont tell their parents? well maybe they do ..(i didnt tell mine) but still someone will tell their parents...and everyone has camera phones these days...There really should be more stringent requirement to become a teacher!!!
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
16 Dec 09
OMG a day in a dark closet. I guess abuse from teachers has been going on for awhile. These teachers should not be teachering our kids. How cruel. What if anything did your parents do when they found out that you were in a closet all day? I'm so upset about this little girl going thru this but to also hear some of my friends in mylot who have been abused in the past from teachers is quite alarming. I guess this type of behavior of teachers have been going on for a long time. I'm so sorry for what you experienced as a child and Thank you so much for your response.
@themdno (402)
• United States
16 Dec 09
Wow, that's unbelievable. I think the teacher should be fired, for sure. $175 fine is nothing for doing that, she should fired. I wouldn't want someone like that teaching my kids. She is obviously not right in the head if she thinks she can cut off a little girls hair. At worst, send the little girl to the office, give her detention, anything like that, but you can't cut the hair off yourself, that's insane.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
16 Dec 09
I know she is only in the first grade. I can't believe what the teacher was thinking. I think he needs to be fired or the little girl gets put into another class. I wouldn't want t continue going to a classroom where the teacher cut my hair off and the class was laughing at me. Horrible stuff. Thanks for responding.
@themdno (402)
• United States
16 Dec 09
Oh, it was a male teacher? I don't know why, but that makes it worse to me. There's no way I would let it go, if it were my kid. I can't believe the school only fined him, that is a joke.
@warvial (1146)
• Singapore
16 Dec 09
I would have make sure the media reports the incident, the teacher get the same humiliation that he/she did to my child and also, a probation be done on his/her teaching. A fine is not enough! Such incidents like this should be made known about what actually happened! Imagine you are out at work and you thought that the school is a safe place for your child to be educated, but instead, this kind of "Frustrated" teacher comes along and you never know if the child is scarred for life due to the embarrassment and humiliation the teacher caused to the child. It is no doubt all human ain't saint and teacher can make mistake. But being a teacher, and because he/she is frustrated at that moment of time and they can vent it out on the innocent? They are just a fine line away from committing something more serious any moment!
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
16 Dec 09
This is why I really don't think the child should go back to that classroom or the teacher needs to be fired for committing such an act on a little girl. A day later and I'm still so angry over this. Thank you so much for your response.
@warvial (1146)
• Singapore
17 Dec 09
For us, we are just angry, but for the little girl going through this, I think she is traumatized by this incident. Firing the teacher? No, I hope the teacher will move permanently to another place, or even better, another field of industry. Really, the punishment that the teacher received, is not enough to assure us of anything.
@sbeauty (5865)
• United States
16 Dec 09
I've been a first grade teacher, and I know how annoying some of the children can be. However, I have never in my wildest imaginations considered doing anything so horrible to a child. This type of behavior on the part of the teacher didn't teach the child a thing. It only humiliated her in front of her friends, and the woman had no right to cut her hair in the first place. Believe me, this is not the kind of behavior teachers are taught in school. Teachers need an enormous amount of patience, especially with the little ones, and I would think that this teacher should have been terminated immediately. Who knows what she's capable of doing next.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
16 Dec 09
That is exactly what I was thinking. What will she do next spank a child, punch a child, push a child. To put a pair of scissors to a child head and cut her hair. Thank you so much for your response.
@drakesuyat (1063)
• Philippines
16 Dec 09
$175 maybe not enough. if im the parent of that girl, i will ask the teacher to come close to me coz il give her the $175 that she can use to pay for fine rather than deducting it to her salary and the moment she comes close, il shave her eyebrows! that way she'll know what is meant by the word LIE and she'll know how it feels to lose some part of your hair
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
16 Dec 09
Good one! I love it! Thanks for your response.
@dodo19 (47113)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
16 Dec 09
I have to agree with you. I don't understand why she did this! She really shouldn't have done this. I do understand that kids can be annoying. It's just the way they are some times. But it doesn't mean that this teacher was frustrated that she had any right to do this sort of thing to this girl. It's absolutely ridiculous that this happened!! I feel sorry for this young girl and the parents as well. It's unfair that this teacher's frustration was taken out needlessly on her.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
16 Dec 09
I know you wonder what is going on in her personal life to do such an act on a 1st grader. Thank you so much for your response.
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
16 Dec 09
I agree with you totally. If it were one of mine...I think I would have to ask the wonderful people of myLot to take up a collection for my bail money because I would go to jail. I would be fighting mad. How dare she cut that child's hair!
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
16 Dec 09
Yes I know that is what I believe would have happened to me too. I hope to hear she is getting more then just a fine for this dispicable behavior. Thank you so much for your response.
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• United States
16 Dec 09
Hello lelin, She was frustrated??? Are you kidding me? If that happened to my daughter I would be raising holy terror on her and would be sure that she was fired. And to boot she was fined $175 do they not realize the effects that will probably have on that little girl? Being frustrated is no excuse to act like this ever whether you are a teacher or a parent of a child. We send our kids to school to be taught and to feel safe and this is the stuff that is going on....we all get frustrated and kids can get on your last nerves at time but cutting off their braids is ridiculous and she should never have the opportunity to teach again because what will she do next time, what if she slipped out of frustration and cut this little girl?
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
16 Dec 09
I know you are so right. I'm so upset about this I surely hope the parents are going to do something about this. That poor girl can't go back to that classroom as long as that same teacher is teaching. She really needs to be fired. Thanks for your response.
• United States
16 Dec 09
As a parent I would have wanted to press charges. The teacher cut off a little girls hair, and gets fined $175? First off the teacher had no right to even touch the girl in the first place. Also 175$ is a ridiculously small payment. At such a young age the girl could have been emotionally damaged. She could end up not trusting adults or even people who say they are going to do something good for her in a way. I would have taken that teacher to court and tried to get her teaching license taken away. Nobody that has such a short fuse needs to even be around children daily.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
16 Dec 09
I hope something more happens to the teacher then a fine. She should be suspended for a period of time to get counseling for her temper and learn how to deal with kids. This should be a requirement of all teachers to be. Thank you for your response.
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• China
16 Dec 09
Dear lelin, I think the teacher's conduct is wrong. It is the child's nature characters to play with the braids. I once be a volunteer teacher in a elementary school in my village.I like the children very much though some of them are very naughty.If i was the parent i will change my daughter to other teacher or other class. I think that will be probaly good to the child.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
16 Dec 09
That is true I never thought of that. The child should be put in another class because this little girl will never strive in a class where the teacher cut her braid off. I feel so bad for this little girl I really do. Thanks for your response.
• Singapore
16 Dec 09
WOW! just a fine. In my country, the teacher might face serious questioning by the education board and face a risk of revoking the license or the right to teach.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
16 Dec 09
I know just a fine for cutting a little girls braid off. She should lose her license to teach as far as I'm concerned. I hope the School Board comes to their senses and realize this is not something to punish someone with just a fine. Thanks for your response.
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
16 Dec 09
That would have made me very very upset. I think that would have been just cause for the teacher to be fired. You just don't do that. I am sure the child was really trying her patience. I have four children and have worked in different early childhood centers. They can be pretty feisty at times, but cutting her hair is just unacceptable.
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
17 Dec 09
Did she get to keep her job? I have seen people get fired or forced to resign for less than that.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
16 Dec 09
I agree totally unacceptable in my book and she should be suspended or fired as far as I'm concerned. Thank you so much for your response.
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@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
16 Dec 09
Wow. I think I would do what I could to get that teacher removed from the school. I agree, if you are that frustrated with first graders you really should be teaching. Kids can be a handful at times but how was the girl playing with her braids bothering that teacher? And where in her mind did she think cutting her braid off would be ok? I couldn't imagine being that frustrated and I have 3 kids who drive me up the wall lol.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
15 Dec 09
I would probably be in jail for assault, lol. She has bo buisness even teaching if she can't control herself any better than that. That is ridiculous.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
15 Dec 09
I know this is a first grader. What is this teacher thinking? Its obvious she wasn't thinking. She should look for another profession because clearly teaching children is not for her. Thanks for your response.
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
15 Dec 09
OK so little kids can be annoying, but a first grade teacher should certainly be prepared to handle the situation. I would certainly want that teacher to get some help before I sent my child back to that class.
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
15 Dec 09
Yes I agree what will she do next? Hit a child for misbehaving. I can't imagine what she was thinking to cut the girls hair. Why couldn't she just put her in time out. I just think there are alot of teachers out there that shouldn't be teaching period due to lack of knowledge and lack of patience. Thank you so much for responding.
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@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
15 Dec 09
Hi lelin, like I said to Lamby you have some strange ways over there. No Greek child would be conned into thinking the teacher had sweets for them as sweets are banned at school. I think they need to pass an immediate law to stop teachers having sharp weapons in the classroom,
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
15 Dec 09
She cut the hair with a pair of school scissors which are allowed in the classroom. I think she is the one that shouldn't be allowed back in the classroom until she gets the help she needs. Thank you so much for your response.
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@happy6162 (3001)
• United States
15 Dec 09
If she gets that frustrated because the little girl was playing with her braids then she should not be teaching children. I would have gone to the school and reported her and probably called the police to meet me there telling them what the teacher had done to my daughter. She should have been fine a lot more and definitely have to take anger management classes.
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@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
15 Dec 09
Yes, what is $175.00 dollars fine. This is unbelievable behavior of a teacher. I seriously think she should not be allowed to enter the classroom again until she gets the help she needs. I would have probably did the same thing you would and call the police. Thank you for responding.
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