Can You Say No To Yourself

@mkings (289)
Germany
December 15, 2009 5:28pm CST
There are thinks which you do and your mind knows that what you are doing is wrong but you find your body doing it.So how can you do to have a strong will power to say NO to yourself and stand on it.
4 responses
@garybao (75)
• China
16 Dec 09
Althoug it is hard to say no to myself, I still try to do that. Else I would be regret what I did. These days I try my best to learn how to control myself -- like studying 2 hours every day or thinking of myself what is wrong or what is right every night. I know it is hard but if I persist to do, it will be easy for me. Have a good day.
@mkings (289)
• Germany
17 Dec 09
We all know its difficult but we also fight so that we will make things right.Sometime if we not say no we will surely regret late.we are human but with God all things are possible
@Zahra07 (101)
• United States
15 Dec 09
Hey Hi, If we say just think about the causes of what we doing wrong, maybe we could say no. If you control yourself you keep doing it. But always good to try and get use of saying No this is wrong.
• Mexico
16 Dec 09
Hi Zahra: I think the same: personal knowledge of our weakness can help us to make the best decition in our lifes when it seems that we can not say no to a temptation that is always present and that we probably are not good enough to fight against it. If we think the reason we should say no we will probably feel better to keep walking. Thanks for your answer. Have a nice day. -Alvaro.
@anniege (203)
• China
15 Dec 09
It is really hard for us to do. My things is like this when I am about to become angry and mad at somebody,I will count 3 number:3-2-1. If i still can't control my feeling, I will lose my temper,however,most of time I successfully control myself. Maybe sometime we just need time to calm ourself and think about it. Trying to say no to ourself makes good to us. Happy mylotting!
@mkings (289)
• Germany
16 Dec 09
That is true,but its take practice to do that and self control.Thanks for your advice
• Mexico
16 Dec 09
Hi mkings: As you say sometimes what you want it's not the right thing and we need to have self control to do what it's good for us. It oftens happend to me with food, i know something it's not good for my health and that i should not go to fast restaurants but even with that i do this. It's not always easy but we actually can say No when you know that it's a temptation. This is part of every human life actually. Thanks for opening this discussion. Everybody is strong enough to find against his/ her temptations but it's good to ask for help if you feel weak. Have a nice day. -Alvaro.