Older women Younger men..

@bhchy1 (6047)
United States
August 29, 2006 11:52pm CST
Do you think it's OK for women in their 40's to date men in their 20's? I would feel like his mother persoanlly..so wrong..
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@noorasie (686)
• Pakistan
30 Aug 06
It's OK
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@morsh88 (121)
• Indonesia
7 Oct 06
Love doesn't know age. Am I right ? As long as you love that older person thats fit to be your mother, and she love you too. Why not ? Once again, Love doesn't know age. Please tell me If I'm wrong ^ ^.
• India
10 Oct 06
why not
• Philippines
29 Nov 06
well, yes i must admit that it doesn't quite sound good, but sometimes when love hits you, there's no age limit or whatever rules that's run. although i must admit that it doesn't seem quite right, but we've also to give them the chance to enjoy the life that they have as long as they haven't both hurt somebody else's feelings.
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• India
30 Aug 06
its rediculos to think about that type of dating its really wrong on the side of me
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• China
30 Aug 06
It's not at all uncommon for older men 2 b with younger women --- esp. at the mid-life crisis point--- why not visa versa? You may have to put up with a bit of critisism from your peers but --- it's just envy. Youger men usually have more stamina and don't need viagra :-)
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• South Africa
30 Aug 06
My Mother married a guy eight years younger than her, I can honestly say its a match made in hell. He is the same age as my uncle and only 15 years older than me. At some point they realised they have nothing in common, even though they both work in the same industry.
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@Webbie (30)
• Mexico
30 Aug 06
People are so different, you can not place limits due to age alone. What is right for you in this relationship may not be right for others or even you with another guy for that matter. True love is not wrong in any form. I know guys that are 20 going on 13 as well as those that are 20 going on 40. For some reason the American public at large looks down on a women that is in a relationship with a younger guy. Where I am it is fairly normal for young guys to be with a woman twice his age. In all relationship we learn in the case of large age differences we have a chance to better the younger partner with our life experience. If you are both happy and in love, don’t let those outsiders come between you. Enjoy the love you have.
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
30 Aug 06
If the desire is mutual, there is no harm. She will teach him, if he lacks. She will have the best, if he has.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
17 Oct 06
thanks for your comment
• India
30 Aug 06
i Find it funny ...i mean ..can you actually bridge that gap...after a while certainly you start loosing interest & the other person starts sounding too matured or dull to you ...isnt it?
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@trying (1)
• South Korea
31 Aug 06
In my opinion, you have to consider the maturity of the man in his 20's. Sometimes, people get excited about something and do it without weighing all the factors. I'm wondering if this is the case but of course, it is really hard to tell.
@tigertang (1749)
• Singapore
19 Oct 06
I once dated a woman in her 40's (I'm 32) until I found her childish. Was a relief when I decided that enough was enough and vowed never to see her again!
@femcsw2 (225)
• United States
25 Nov 06
speaking from personal experience, it's something you really want to consider before you do it. Your interests may be the same now but wait ten years. Things will be differnet!
@femcsw2 (225)
• United States
2 Dec 06
true, but if I knew then what I know now....
@hansen (56)
• China
27 Nov 06
It is very difficult for common people to foresee for ten or more years.
@mamarama (206)
• United States
29 Nov 06
It's not for me, but I could see a mature guy in his late 20s having a good relationship with an immature 40-yr-old. But I've seen too many of these types of relationships start out hot and heavy, then fail because the woman wants security and the young guy just wants fun.
@juls2me2 (2150)
• United States
5 Dec 06
You make a great point. The woman usually loses out in the end. There are a few odd breakers though. I've met a few men now that prefer an older woman of maybe 5-7 years but not a 20-year difference. My husband is a year behind me, it works.
@bam001 (940)
• United States
27 Dec 06
I am in my late 30's. There are some men in their early 20's (23 or 24) that I do find attractive. I would consider dating them if the chemistry was there. But, I tend to go for the older men...mid-to-late forties. I really prefer the ones that know what life is all about.
• United States
27 Dec 06
I met my husband when he was 29 and I was 36, we've been happily married for 5 years and together for 8. I worried for a while, but like he says-he did not fall in love with a 20yo, he fell in love with me
• India
12 Mar 07
i don hav any problem...i wont mind dating a 40+...in fact i wil love to date...
@juls2me2 (2150)
• United States
4 Dec 06
No...it's really disgusting. It would be like dating your son. Grow up women....you are still attractive and there are men our own ages that are worth going after.
@saphire539 (1639)
• United States
4 Dec 06
I don't see any problem with it I am 39 and my husband is 28 we are both adults thats what counts and we are very much in love and have been together for 3 years now.
• India
6 Dec 06
well if both are comfortable then its ok , force fully its will not work
• United Arab Emirates
6 Dec 06
ya well i would feel uncomfi as well!ur rite it would be like a Mother son thing!and dats very weird!
@vinoth_123 (1876)
• India
6 Dec 06
I think age is not a problem if heart is merged means.
• India
17 Dec 06
i dont see anything wrong in it. The womwn have the experience can give the guys a nice time and some good tips too.