I hate to be cheated but I can't avoid not to cheat!

@DenverLC (1146)
Philippines
December 17, 2009 1:42am CST
All of us for sure does not want to be cheated especially by our true love and even our friends, peers and other acquintances. Now, how come their are still cheaters who does not want to be cheated, they pretend to be innocent when caught and confronted. An irony right?
9 responses
• Malaysia
18 Dec 09
I understand just how innocent a cheater can be when they are caught red handed...the most annoying thing for me is that they are not ashamed to show that they are having an affair. I've talked to the woman who almost ruined my respect for my dad a few time. She has no shame in herself a divorcee and gold digger. One time I confronted my father about the matter and he was speechless but still insisted that he is not having an affair with that b#t3h( I can't help but to call her that)...and later we learn that there was another woman. I hate cheater and I hate the people who made it happen.
@Nameless_ (1180)
• Australia
18 Dec 09
I agree with you. Personally, I am not the type to cheat, but it is weird, I agree. Many people try to find the "one", the Mr or Ms Right for themselves, and of course, they never do, because they always find some flaw or another in their partner. And yet, they never think about themselves and how they are not perfect themselves. The human mind always thinks that they themselves are the best and is always right. We often criticize other people, but never ourselves.
@Savedeath (255)
• China
18 Dec 09
if we think that's right then we just do it,and cheating or not is not the standard.but if somebody cheat others is just for the benefit of himself.i hate that and always i will not make friends with them
• Philippines
17 Dec 09
hahaha funny but yeah it's true. Cheaters hate to be cheated, just like thieves hate other thieves. But we can't escape the law of nature, what we sow is what we reap. Obviously if we do bad to others bad will also come into us, much worse. So the advice is don't cheat, fixed your mind. Do not enter in a relationship that you don't like or just half-like. So hard to serve two lovers you know.. hehe And some would say that they love both two lovers.?? what A!
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
17 Dec 09
Its because its a slap in their place that he person they trust is hurting them in a way that they cheat at them. Thinkers are doers. Its also a matter of pride especially to men because common reaction its normal for men to cheat on women. The women accept the men even if they cheat but men can never accept women who cheat on them.
@bingchen (1126)
• China
17 Dec 09
i find that this thing often appear in my life.so it could not avoid to be cheat,although i could not change this fact,so only treating it as experience and improve my ability to distinguish,this is good way.so this could not avoid because we have young,this painful scar often grow up with us.so it is only part of growing up,we need plain mind to treat,you can learn to forget this people in your mind slowly.
@arystine (1274)
• Philippines
17 Dec 09
Yes, I know several people who are like that. They don't want to be cheated. They become paranoid that their partner is cheating on them because they have been doing the same for most of their lives. There are even those who would rather die than to admit that they cheated. I hate people like that but they cannot be avoided. I don't know why they grew up that way but I pity them.
@Helenhe (19)
• China
17 Dec 09
Not all the people are integrity and not all the lies are hostile.Do not expect everybody tell you the truth because they may have their own concern. They may think it is better that you don't know something since they don't want to hurt you.
@vjagra (147)
• India
17 Dec 09
It definitely is ironical. We expect miracles from people without knowing that we hardly deserve that. It is rare to find people who are trying to be better towards others; everyone tries to make others "better" so as live comfortably around them. Unfortunately, there is no mirror that can show us who we actually are. Pretension and hypocrisy are more common than we possible imagine.