Am I not good enough for him?

Philippines
December 17, 2009 3:11am CST
I and my boyfriend are together for more than 6 years now. We are living together and we are both happy. But, just like other couples, we used to have some arguments for some times. I am very possessive. As much as possible, I want him to be by my side always. I am jealous even to his friends. My friends told me that I should give him some space and freedom to do the things he wants to do by himself. But everytime I think of allowing him to go out and have some night out with his friends, I feel very uncomfortable and very jealous. I know this isn't good but i couldn't find ways to change my way of thinking. Am I that bad?
1 response
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
in a relationship, both should trust n respect each other. It means that u shouldn't have been jealous n respect his personal activities by giving him a freedom to make a friend n be with his friends. U can watch his step without being with him always wherever he is. He may not stand u if u r too possessive. So, pls trust him. Even though u always notice him, u should give him a space.
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
I mean u should respect his personal activities*