Are you afraid of losing your relationship??For tht you say sorry if its not....

There's an old saying, "If you lend someone $20 & you never see them again, it was probably worth it." If you have fear something in a relationship, I don't think it's a relationship at all. Why try to keep a relationship based on fear, instead of mutual respect & love. Relationship out of fear isn't really worth keeping, at least for me. Just like a friendship based on money is bound to break soon or later. Friends that would leave you for money, do you really need a friend like that? Or closer to this topic, keeping a relationship for sake of having a relationship or because you don't wanna be alone, is that really worth keeping? Who needs a relationship like that? I couldn't keep up with it. If I may go even further, should we not yell at our kids or correct them based on fear of them hating us? What's right is right & what's wrong is wrong. Stand by your conviction & your belief. Don't bend your beliefs & go against your nature for someone else. Eventually, you'll only end up with whole lotta resentments. You know what's gonna happen next time you guys have an argument? Things like, "You know what I've done for you? How could you say that when I did......." My girl friend & I fight, too. Almost every couple goes through rough time. It should be the love & respect that should hold you together, not fear. That's just my opinion.

If the relationship is really good enough. I would say yes, I'm afraid to lose it. But if my gf did something wrong that is cheating me. I don't know if that relationship being retain of what?