How would you react if you are a woman then they think your a guy/gay??

Philippines
December 18, 2009 5:12am CST
Well, my friends is so angry someone mistaken her as a guy and worse as a gay. That is quite bit insulting to her and she so mad that i just manage to control her temper. well, i just tell her to calm down but she so feel irritate that she klike to shout to the world and scream that she is a real woman..Have you encounter a situation when someone mistaken you as a guy or a gay? What your reaction? Kindly shares..
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• Philippines
2 Jan 10
that is so funny then all she have to do is to tune down her images by not wearing sleeveless shirts so that her muscular shoulder and hands is not visible. She could minimize her make up to look more feminine and not to be mistaken s effeminate. it really gives a headache being mistaken as a gay, so far I have not yet mistaken as a gay but as a student and i have discount when i ride to passenger bus that i do not need to hand my Id the conductor automatically deduct my fare as they think i am more younger than my age because of my petite stature. All i could say your friend need to be comfortable with herself and never let other get her down some would love her no matter changes happen to her as it is the inner beauty which counts at the end.
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• Philippines
4 Jan 10
yeah, and though she already learn to accept whatever her look now. As she do not feel insecure anymore and very confident others would also respect her as long as she do not lose her self respect. She doing fine now and lose a little muscles to look more feminine.
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
19 Dec 09
hehe...i think that's really annoying and yeah insulting. hmmm, but maybe there's a reason why she was mistaken as a gay or guy? did she really looks like a gay? or she puts much make up that time that make her look like one? or maybe she has sharp features? hmmm just asking... i just experience thing like this once, but i don't really feel that bad coz i am still very young then, just on my early teen. the jeepney driver mistaken me as a boy... i feel a bit offended but i understand, coz i think i really look like a young boy then with my very short hair...from then on, i don't cut my hair that way again...
• Philippines
20 Dec 09
lol...well, she is so tall and look muscular as she always workout in the gym, having build muscles then her face look thin and yet her body so look like a boxer. then, she wear full make up to make he look more feminine but the bystander and other look to her like she just comes out from the coffin..sometimes when her make up melted then it mix out making her face look like violet even in pictures look oily..well, i advice her to lighten but she doesn't like to listen..so the time we go to the mall the sales clerk mistake her as as a he which irritate her then we walk at the mall aisle many are looking and laughing.then she exclaim why are they laughing..i am normal with no virus????I just cheer her up as i do not like to add anymore..she really look like a gay.i advice her to forgive those detractors and just remain as she is..your experience then is funny though and some is really mistaken as a boy when their hair is so short unless you put make up and wear short skirt, high heels and earring they would not associate you as one of the he..
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
lol! then i guess people have reasons to think her as a gay! hehe maybe you should tell her...to try looking on the mirrors! just kidding! well, there are some girls who really looks good in short hair and still looks feminine even without accessorizing themselves... during that time, i can't put make up or anything coz i am still very young then...hehe
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
hehehe..she already know what she lacking and she working on it to change her images..thanks
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
5 Mar 10
heheh Tell her to flash her boobs! LOL On a serious note, does she appear feminine? Does she wear girly clothes are typical male clothing? I don't like the latest trend that women wear men style of clothing.
• Philippines
11 Mar 10
hehehe well..well..she have a well endow assets but the problem she look muscular than the typical gal and hopefully she working on it to act more feminine. She wear women clothes but more comfortable in casual dress. anyway, she comfortable with the way she is and the problem fall to those onlookers . thanks