Why do you think it is so difficult to meet the right person in a world so big

world - big world
United States
December 18, 2009 10:59pm CST
There are so many people in this world so why is it so hard to find a good match.
5 responses
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
19 Dec 09
Life is about learning and growing as people. We learn through the parameters of our life and the people we meet. People don't fit in your life for a reason. They won't help in the lessons. True love will. The parameters are set but as with everything timing is everything. Relax and be patient. True love has no time table. Some people don't find it until later in life. Always be open for true love. It tends to show up when you least expect it.
@rene12 (794)
• Philippines
19 Dec 09
For me, it is easy to find a person which you will do anything for him/her but the hardest part is to find that person you love that will do anything for you :D
@picjim (3002)
• India
19 Dec 09
I feel it could be because the ideal person we want to meet is only in our imagination.In this world of ours we have to adjust.Even if we find the person of our taste what is the guarantee that they will like us or that they are already hitched with someone else.The best option is to try and adjust with someone very near our deal.
• Philippines
19 Dec 09
the problem is that we try to search for the right one, but nobody told us to do that. i mean, let's just enjoy life as it is, God has plans for us and He knows when's the right time for you to meet the right person you'll be with. we should not search for him, coz if that person is really intended for your heart, then he'll show up. who knows? you're just sitting and drinking coffee at starbucks when suddenly a man approaches you and you end up with that guy? you didn't do anything right? just wait like me. i'm waiting for my prince, hope you'll meet yours soon. ;)
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
19 Dec 09
It is difficult to find the right person in this big world maybe because he of many standards that even tend to be high standards for one. There is no perfect person and finding the possible right partner must be in accordance to your best choice of qualities where you will be contented. I guess it is better if you take life as journey and continue your plans and aspirations in life and who knows your partner may come your way. The more you look for him, the more it is harder to find and possibly may commit errors. So better be patient while enjoying the best you got in you life now and take it smoothly so that you will fairly enjoy the happiness life can give to you.