What do you think about having physical relationship before marriage?

Nepal
December 20, 2009 5:27am CST
I dont think its bad but still somewhere in my mind i feel its bad..
9 responses
@satan88 (586)
• United States Minor Outlying Islands
21 Dec 09
it's not for me but it's okay if other people want it. And i'm not saying this because of cultural or religious purposes because i'm not religious and nobody around me feels the same way. it's just me.
@agv0419 (3028)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
In our culture too we give importance to virginity but not all people here preserving there virginity. I think it is a choice and religious belief of a person but for me I still want to preserve it until I find the right person whom I'm going to marry. When you do it out of love in the end you going to regret and suffer.
• Nepal
21 Dec 09
Yes me too... but still i think its not so bad... at all
• United States
20 Dec 09
There is nothing wrong with having a physical relationship before marriage. In fact it shouldn't even be required to get married to someone in the first place. Yes it shows you love them but you can love someone without marrying them. Marrying someone just gives you a ton of benefits. And I think its wrong for anyone to say that you can't have a physical relationship with someone unless you're married because we are holding back homosexuals from getting married. If you want to say that you shouldn't do something before getting married you need to let everyone marry who they want to in the first place.
• Nepal
21 Dec 09
i agree with your comments my friend..
• China
20 Dec 09
I think its bad because it is against my culture even if it becomes normal in some country but I can't accept it and I think many people still mind in my country and it is bad for marriage so sometimes it will become the fuse of divorce.Therefore, I think it's better not have physical relationship before marriage.
• Nepal
21 Dec 09
Yes thats your opinion and i like it..
• United States
20 Dec 09
well i think we think it's bad because of our culture, at least here in the u.s. at least some of the culture maybe because of Christianity and stuff. but if you think outside the box then question your beliefs, maybe you are right!
• Nepal
21 Dec 09
Yes you are absolutely right... its all because of our culture and traditions we follow.
@Savedeath (255)
• China
20 Dec 09
um...i think it's ok.but before we do that we'd better think about what we will do in the future.both should make sure loving each other.and if you do that before marriage you should prepare to get marriage.
• Nepal
20 Dec 09
Yes you are right.
@jpertin (60)
• India
20 Dec 09
It depends on the background of culture where you have been born. But when we speak on the basis of religion, i do not think any religion advice to have physical relationship before marriage. But in most of the metro city, if you are still virgin while you reach college, it is not considered as dignity but as lack of opportunity. If both the partner do not mind doing it then i think it is fine. As i believe, our forefathers might not have this rule not to have physical relationship before marriage when they were living in the caves.
• Nepal
20 Dec 09
Yes thats 100% right. What ever you have said is absolutely true. I guess its what most of the people on this world think and must keep in mind.
@simonelee (2718)
• China
20 Dec 09
Hi there. In our culture it must preserve until you find the person to marry but it's temptations are everywhere.Usually surrendering the virginity often happened if a person thought she's in love and been loved or been fooled by her boyfriend. For me it only become bad if you do it out of love and become a habit.
• Nepal
20 Dec 09
Samething in our culture too but still in todays world its became a bit normal and some times some neglects it so they do suffer also..
@fsll518 (304)
• China
20 Dec 09
This is something we can only go forward, but not backward. So, we just need to make sure we make physical relationship to the right person, otherwise, that would only make both sides get hurt. If both are sincere and compatible, that's good; otherwise, it can be really "bad". If you play with life, then finally you will see how your life plays you. Good luck!
• Nepal
20 Dec 09
YEs i agree with you..
@Hazelrose (2182)
• Philippines
20 Dec 09
Hi alienvspredator01,Well,for me it's not good.it is better to get married first before doing such thing.Besides it is against the will of God.God created the wedding vows in order to have the Blessings of the matrimony of marriage.Good Luck!
• Nepal
20 Dec 09
Yes i do respect and agree with your comment. Thank you for the comment.