How is your family this coming christmas?

@bulastika (5966)
Philippines
December 20, 2009 11:12pm CST
Hi guys! Christmas is near but I don't know if we can call it Christmas. Because my two older sisters has a little problem that they don't know how to reconcile. Its been years now..And every year the issue is getting bigger.. Its almost days left before Christmas but it doesn't feel that way here in our home. Theirs no Christmas spirit.
2 responses
@atebuds (187)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Don't feel bad. Just think that other people might be in a worst situation. Sisters will always be sisters. They will reconcile in no time. Maybe it's just a test, to see how far they can go. But, everything will be fine, don't worry. Merry Christmas!
@agv0419 (3021)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
I think maybe in the future your sisters going to be reconcile and time can tell when. It is hard when the members of the family has misunderstandings. For the spirit of Christmas they should forgive one another and try to forget their mistakes and fights in the past.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Its a life time quarrel theirs no end to it.. And its getting worse year by year.. If they want to reconcile they done it years before.. They don't even know how its started.. Its just attitude.. Its already embedded.
@ElicBxn (64169)
• United States
21 Dec 09
I'm sorry to hear that you have problems in your family. I'm sure they each blame the other for the problem, but the rest of you can see they are both causing it. My brother and I don't get along, but I've just resolved to not fight with him and this makes getting together with the family much easier. I think he tries too, but I really don't think he tries as hard as I do - because our fighting upsets mom so much.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
21 Dec 09
Same with our case..It almost started as a childish fight and they carry it on until they are adult..If you ask both of them what they're fighting about they can't seem remember when its start.. They also do that. Trying to be nice with each other..But after the smiles sink in.. Conspiracy Theory sinks in..Why suddenly she become nice? etc etc...and the cycle begin.
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