Today I learned how to smile for the first time. Yay!

United States
December 21, 2009 3:11pm CST
I haven't been able to smile 'til today, I couldn't frown or look confused, in fact I was totally expressionless. With the help of another mylot member and sheer determination I finally learned how to make these expressions, I can now smile What have you achieved today that made you happy?
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@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
22 Dec 09
I think I've got all my presents wrapped! well, bought and wrapped! and a few for the roomie too AND I used up a roll of left over paper - maybe I'll use up all the paper I've got before I die!
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@ElicBxn (63235)
• United States
22 Dec 09
it was a nightmare! I was down to 2 rolls of partially used paper and got a windfall from freecycle from someone who was moving and wanting to rehome her Christmas paper - I thought - what? 2 or 3 rolls - well, more like 5, but all partials, but they started as really big rolls! Then I got 3 more rolls from my mother! and I don't even REMEMBER where some of the others came from - I think when a friend moved to a nursing home - nobody else wanted the paper and I have a shed... well, 5 of them actually.... I have bought one roll its BRIGHT red - but I haven't touched it. I generally use up quite a bit while wrapping the roomie's gifts, but we did that at her mom's this year - with that paper not mine - so, only used up one partial, but a good chunk of another partial - might still find a way to use that up too... crafting - maybe I'll get some more papermache boxes after xmas and glue paper to them.... I just painted them white this year - I could paint then paper - didn't have time to do that this year
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• United States
22 Dec 09
Wow...the paper just keeps coming and coming for you,and I thought I had a lot of it..not even close.When things get less hectic you can use some of it on crafts and at least with the red paper you can probably have that handy anytime.I also use some of it for origami it looks festive on the dinner table.But at least you got through the chaotic part though!My problem is I forget where I put it and panic or I see one that is too pretty to resist,and yet it still lingers seems like there is no end to it..lol!But I guess we are prepared!
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• United States
22 Dec 09
Oh that's good,I always wait until the last minute with my shopping which I hate as I can't deal with the crazy holiday shoppers every year I say I'll get it done early but it never happens for me..lol.Thankfully I didn't have to buy too much this year so I got off light this time around.Wrapping paper never seems to end still haven't used up mine from last year,sometimes I use a little for crafting most of the time it stays in my closet getting dust bunnies.
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@ToughTate (143)
• United States
21 Dec 09
I invested time into making online and any time I do I just feel better about the time I did spend. And with the help of mylot, my small earnings are conjoined with interesting and engaging thoughts from others.
• United States
21 Dec 09
Yes I know what you mean.I need to spend more time on here...didn't think I'd miss it be confess I have lots of interesting things to read here and love my friends here too..makes me want to stick around here.
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• United States
21 Dec 09
ooopppppsey had a word salad moment..that's what I get for trying to multi task!LOL
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
22 Dec 09
I am not sure I understand, but congratulations. I achieved staying optimistic even though the sun has not been out for two days. That is not unusual some places, but here in the desert it is rare. Most days I am just naturally happy. Some people call me a Pollyanna after the little girl in the movie who went around all optimistic and spreading cheer. Yep, that's me. PS: I see you are a Tolkien reader/fan.
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
22 Dec 09
Yes, I saw that. Did you know that Tolkien was a professor of Anglo Saxon Literature (Old English). Have you read Beowulf?
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• United States
22 Dec 09
Oh yes the first time I read it..I was in high school and really liked it but felt I missed something .However reading again for just myself and not for a school assignment it just blew me away and gave me goosebumps,brilliant piece of art nice to find others who appreciate it
• United States
22 Dec 09
Thanks drannhh,no worries half the times I don't understand myself...think it's my flighty nature which I can't quell and I have a tendency to go off topic it keeps things interesting I am tickled my friends are so understanding of that..lol!Pollyanna is cute I loved the movie,and I think that is the best way to be..to see the bright side to things even when you are sad.And it helps those having a bad day too get them to smile and believe that things aren't as bad as they look,it's a great way to be.Yes I love Tolkien he is one of my favorite writers and he created elven languages and opened the door to a magical world I love to imagine myself in ..the guys a genious..in fact my mylot quote on my profile is in Quenya!
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
22 Dec 09
Smiling for the first time is a great feeling right? Don't overdo it though because if you smile more than three times you get shouted at by the PTB You can't even wink too often either
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
22 Dec 09
Well if they do get the wrong idea then it is them that will be disappointed not you and then they would be the ones to
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• United States
22 Dec 09
It's awesome! I'll try not to over do it with my new found talent Oopsssssies there I go again. I'll be careful with who I wink at, I don't want people getting the wrong idea of an innocent lady
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• United States
22 Dec 09
That's so true, I didn't think of that
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21 Dec 09
Hi faeryotheshire, I am so glad you can smile again, I have missed you, have a lovely Christmas and the New year will be brighter for you, love and hugs. Bright Blessings. Tamara
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• United States
21 Dec 09
Hello my lovely Tamara...I have missed you loads,my New Years resolution is to hang around more online.I am eager to start a new year can't wait to leave this one behind.I wish you a magical christmas and a blessed New Year.Much light and love to you Tamara.xxxxx
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@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
21 Dec 09
Hey faery! Great to see you again! Have been missing you my dear lady! I can't really remember smiling much myself! Once in awhile my friends will make me smile or even laugh! But, I surely don't do it half as much as I used to do! Sometimes my boyfriend and I will laugh at something silly one of us does, but those times are few and far between! And sometimes we can laugh at some things the cats will do! They're sometimes good for a joke, even though they don't know why we're laughing at them! My cat Luna will just plomp down in the middle of the rug and roll around crazy for no reason talking away! And he just looks up at my boyfriend waiting for a response! Now, my bf is so not an animal person so that alone is funny! But, once in awhile he will give in and bend down and "talk" to Luna and pet him! You have to find things to make you smile, faery! Even if they are the simplest things! Hugs to you and try to keep smiling! Wishing you the merriest Christmas and Happiest New Year!
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• United States
21 Dec 09
Hello Opal,I have missed you too.I am trying to get on here more these days.Most know I have had a really tough year and losing Nanners this autumn really put a dent in my usual silly and fun nature..but now I feel more like my old self.What a lovely story about Luna thank you for sharing that,I love filling up the world with laughter..I think it's the best medicine.BIG HUGS back at you and always lovely to see you and see you smiling as well.xxxxx
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• Canada
18 Jan 10
Hi faery! Both of us have kind of been MIA for the last little while, but its great to see ur still here in MyLot Land! I had my baby on October 7th, now she is getting into her "smiling stage" and that makes me smile! :) :) :)
@littleowl (7157)
22 Dec 09
Today is the first time I have been out after having the swine flu and taken my dogs for a walk, then I scraped the ice of the garden path and cleared the patio, that was good enough for me and I has acheived something by going out..it was lovely to breath in the crisp fresh air...LoLo
• United States
24 Dec 09
Blessings to you LoLo...sorry to hear that you have been sick.I am glad you are improving though and were able to get up and about.I understand the feeling when I was sick for months last year and the thrill I felt just being able to sit on my patio was great.I hope you get even better quick.Lovely to see you.Take care.XX
• Canada
18 Jan 10
I agree, it is ALWAYS a great feeling to get out and get some fresh air when cooped up! I had a baby via c-section on October 7th, and when I was FINALLY released 3 days later I was so happy to go outside in the crisp, autumn air! When I got home I think I went back outside and sat on the front step for about an hour LoL!
• China
25 Dec 09
Smile,i always.I feel i'very happy,so almost everything can make me simle.I'affected by everything my friends do for me,especially eating things. happy christmas.
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• United States
27 Dec 09
I think that is a great way to be,When I am not going through a brooding phase I find I am easily amused and that is my usual state.and I like it there...I lost it for awhile but it's nice to have found it again and keep smiling and being who you are I think it's lovely.
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