why the boy's rude after marriege ?

When a couple date the man should be on his best behavior. He is likely to be charming, polite and interesting. After getting married the couple will live together. The man might become rude, loud and boring. Before he was hiding the real him. Generally people act differently amongst family, informally than with others, formally. What is going to help a marriage is clear communication. I wish you lots of luck making your husband polite and quiet like he was when you first met.

I've noticed this too, not with myself obviously but with my cousin, who has just recently been married, as well as stories I've heard from friends of mine. I don't know what it is exactly, but my guess is that once you're married, some guys don't feel like the relationship requires that much "work" anymore (being less polite, doing less things to "woo" you, etc), because they've already GOT you in marraige. But that's just my take on it. I'm not sure what kind of advice I can give you, though, because I've never been in that situation myself. I would imagine you should have a talk with him and explain to him that how he's acting..Well, it's just not the same person you married.

Well, boys are not generally change. Its mainly the stress and strain at the work and their building pressures of responsibilities make them behave strange. Just they need more love and care from the spouse the same way we loved at those days. He will be fine and understand you.