boyfriend is not worth losing education for

@whateva (786)
India
December 22, 2009 7:57am CST
and so people i decided to pay attention to my studies..rather then worrying about my boyfriend being always busy..least i would act like retard the more i'll know haha..what do you say..studies are something thats gonna affect my life forever..unlike these relationship problems..tired worryin about all the guys come and go ..so here i go people ..i'm tryin to work a lil haha:P
6 responses
@cobradene (1171)
• India
22 Dec 09
If you can balance both then continue, and if it's distracting you too much, then sacrifice and devote your time to studies. And, if your studies need a lot of time and you can't devote your time to your relationship, then maybe you have to opt yourself out. But, you can always reach a common understanding and maybe prolong the relationship or commitment for sometime and decide to get together again after your task is accomplished, which may not sound practical... But it all depends on individual experiences, nobody can tell you how things should be and what decisions have to be taken when you are in such and such situations... Only you can decide because it's your life.
@whateva (786)
• India
26 Dec 09
yeah sure ill talk to him about this wheneva he is not busy..but i guess he is always busy haha :D
• Singapore
22 Dec 09
Good for you! I suggest you complete your self-fulfilment. Secure your education for a secure career and future. Only then you will feel accomplished and no regrets. Good luck in realizing your dreams!
@whateva (786)
• India
22 Dec 09
yeah right i need to secure my future..have to take the benefit out of this education my parents are giving me..and why not..i cant just let all their money go to waste.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
22 Dec 09
I know that many students have boyfriends and that is fine as long as they don't neglect their studies. Boyfriends might change over a lifetime but an educational course will last a number of years. It will help a person for the rest of their life. I concentrated on my studies when I was at university. I did well and got good qualifications. Good luck with your studies.
@whateva (786)
• India
22 Dec 09
yah thanks :P
• United States
22 Dec 09
If your boyfriend truly cares about you he isn't going to be upset that you are focusing on your education and your future. Your future can still have him in it but right now you need to focus on what is going to make your future the best. And if he complains about it then just drop him for good because in the end it was his fault and its his lost. Good choice though. Too many people put education aside when it comes to relationships and its a shame.
@ElsaElsa (323)
• United States
22 Dec 09
Sounds like your relationship keeps you more busy than your studies. If this boyfriend is not one you see yourself marrying then it's better to pursue dreams that will secure your future and who knows you'll find someone who shares the same sentiments. If you don't want to break up then give him space and yourself some space and make decisions that will not come between your study time and your relationship. For instance, if you have an exam in a week that you need to prepare for then forego any outings or chats over the phone until after the exam. Once or twice a day during your break you can call up and see how he is but other than that your focus should be studies. Does this help.
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
24 Dec 09
Well, I believe that is the best decision you can have right now. Since you are still studying, you will be passing that stage for once while in love concerns, you can tackle that for the rest of your life after education. Sometimes, we have to make choices in life that will give more benefits and less pain in any circumstances in effect. Having a good education is an opportunity that other people seem not to have. Love can wait and happens unexpectedly. Usually true love from any person must lead you to good plan's in life. It supports and understands your undertakings. For that matter, he will not even try to hurt you for he love you so much.