Is This Morbid

First, how old is this person? Second, did this person receive a report about his medical condition? If the one we are talking about is relatively young and healthy, is he possibly suffering from clinical depression? Any other mental illness? I'm not an expert, and even if I was, one would need to be examined before making judgments.

Well, observing someone like you describe can either be terribly amusing or terribly disturbing. It drives me a little nuts to hear someone say "I will do this tomorrow, God spare life," which means if God allows them to wake up the next day and continue to live. I feel like they should expect to live and plan appropriately, especially if they are relitively young and healthy.

Hi Evr.......I sometimes wonder if my dad thinks about it a lot...he is 96. He will sometimes make jokes about "kicking the bucket" and so will I...he seems ok with it. Actually I find myself thinking of my own demise rather a lot. I don't know why I do this and I have never told anyone...sometimes I worry if I have a long drive ahead of me. Sometimes I worry if I will wake up next morning. I so wish I could stop doing this as it's sort of like a self fulfilling prophecy.

a lot depends on how old she is and what her health is like. i mean, i never thought of it this way but im bad about that also. i've ecepted that im probably not going to be here that much longer for my kids. we have talked about it a lot. they are all grown. i just want them to be able to except it and realise what i want done. also, that its something im well prepared for and will be happy to see my hubby again. lifes just not a lot of fun since hes gone and they know that. yes its morbid. i probably should stop it now that they know.

It must be very hard to carry on a conversation with this person. The subject matter somewhat limited. To me it's just very sad. Blessings