very pecular dream what do it says..

@raj_ka (431)
India
December 27, 2009 11:35am CST
hi, I always gets one dream.Does this says anything? I just share with you..It is that exams arrive and i dont have any time to study. Before one day of the exam i feel very upset as i dont know anything not even a single lesson. My friends prepare well and i express them the feeling. One of my friends tells that you can copy from my paper and can acheive pass marks. But i know that i cannt even copy as i fear that i will be caught. Then suddenly when i go to the exam i dont know how i get answers to the questions I write the exam.Do anyone see such dreams and i get is often...what does it mean.
4 responses
@StarBright (2798)
• United States
28 Dec 09
Hi Raj_ka: Your dream is screaming stress and anxiety, pure and simple. My guess is you have a big fear of getting low marks in your studies and this fear is carried into your dreams. What you have is something similar to stage fright. Some people are terrified of appearing on stage before an audience. They panic at the thought of having to make a speech. You are having exam fright. You panic at the thought of taking an exam. Try relaxation exercises to relieve some of your stress. You know the instructor will only test you on materials that you have been given. You will not see anything new. I was a software developer and systems analyst for many years. I often had nightmares because my biggest fear was that I would miss a deadline. I never lost the anxiety, but I learned to control it. You must find a way to do the same. Otherwise, your health will suffer. You have the right attitude and you know what to do. Be attentive in class. Set aside time to study. Ignore your friends who would lead you astray by cheating. Not only would you be expelled and bring shame on yourself and your family, you would not learn anything. You cannot expect your friends to carry you through life. There is an expression that says "Every chair must stand on its own legs." This is also true for men and women. You get the correct answers on the exam because you are prepared. A little anxiety is good because it keeps you motivated. However, you do not want to overdo it. Good luck and God bless. I wish you much success in your studies. By the way, what are you studying?
@raj_ka (431)
• India
28 Dec 09
hi, I forget to mention that i finished my studies and in near future i dont have any plans to study. I was surprise to see this type of dream after completing my studied and i dont have any exams to attend. I am not jobseeker too. I agree with you that during exams stress and anxiety can make you suffer from fear. But at this point of life what this dream want to say. I keep seeing this quiet often, is my mind not able to come out from the past. As said by you maybe it is fear for not able to met the deadlines. My content project do have deadlines as you specified which sometimes i exceed but i never got any bad comments from the client. Maybe this reason made me see the dream, wht do you say?
• United States
30 Dec 09
Sounds like post-traumatic stress syndrome. It is similar to what our military men and women suffer when they come home from the war. Even after the battle, it is hard to let go. If you still have projects and deadlines, you may not have given yourself time to recover and rest up from your studies before you jumped into a job that seems like a continuation of what you endured in school. Congratulations on completing your studies. You are a bright young man with a bright future. I am sure of it. You may have to go a little easier on yourself so you can relax and enjoy your success.
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
29 Dec 09
i got a similar dream in the past. in the dream, i had a hard time completing the test, and there always was something missing to deter me from finishing it. i scrambling around the room to find all the pieces that i need to finish the test. and toward the end, when the room was almost empty, i was relaxed and able to do the test and finish it. then at the end, i was hanging out with the some students who were sitting by me in the class, and they set me up with a guy who just walks in. so, i dont know what it really means but maybe it is trying to tell me to persevere and everything will work out in the end.
@raj_ka (431)
• India
30 Dec 09
hi, Really a pecular dream. How many times did you get this type dream? I hope as said by StarBright, relaxing may solve the problem.
• China
28 Dec 09
i also have the same dream many times that's i do not satisfied with the result of my final test on the senior school so i dreamed it again and again. people said if we keep something in our mind then we may dream it on the night. that's the real life concern to the dream.
@raj_ka (431)
• India
28 Dec 09
hi, Yes i too use to believe that but after getting this dream repeated i confirm that fears are our dreams. Maybe i had a fear to fail or attend exam unpreapared.Thxs for you suggestion.
@apexiph (123)
• Malaysia
27 Dec 09
Hi. I always have a similar dreams like yours. Well like old folks use to say you got no choice except to prepare an umbrella before the rain is coming. Don't ever cheat on exam because when you get caught, it will ruin your reputation n expectation of other people to you. For me, this dream happens because we are always keep thinking of the examination but without doing any preparation for it. Sacrifice a bit for your future.. : happy MyLot'ting
@raj_ka (431)
• India
28 Dec 09
hi, Thxs for suggestion but i finished my education long back and dont have any intention to do anything in the future. Still this dream is disturbing me, is it related to something else.That is what we see has some other meaning.