what is your facing in your life?

@bingchen (1126)
China
December 28, 2009 6:15am CST
sometimes i feel helpless in my life,because i must face large pressure and difficulties and make me sad for them.sometimes i think that i can find the good way to deal with it,but nobody can help me except for money,so i often trouble for it.sometimes i think that if i have lots of money,i can deal with my many difficulties and pressure,i could not worry about for them.everyone have something to face,and you?
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4 responses
@jaiho2009 (38995)
• Philippines
28 Dec 09
Hello bingchen, In this life,we have to face some challenge and difficulties too. Once we were able to solve some problem/s,and it give us positive results,we felt so much relief and,it give us joy either. It even make us a better us,stronger and well determined person. No one in this life live without any worries,even the rich and famous also face difficulties and encountered problems. It is how we deal with it,it is how we manage to face our fears and worries. We must learn to accept that life is not easy,that life has a lot of surprises to give each day. Money is not everything,thu it is necessary. Money solves a lot of problem,but also gives a lot of problem and troubles. I live my life to what i thought gives me satisfaction. I don't try to reach the highest peak,but i tried to climb the mountain of life and see every step what precautions do i need to make each step worth living. My life is full of ups and down too,but i accept every trial as a challenge. And every challenge gives me the will to prove that i am a stronger person than i ever thought. Have a good day my friend.
@bingchen (1126)
• China
30 Dec 09
thanks for your comment,of course i could not change situation.but i can change myself to face every difficulties and accept challenge and learn to grow up in difficulty and become stronger.
@jaiho2009 (38995)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
that's the best thing to do my friend,make yourself the better you. trials and difficulties are to build us...not to destroy us. thanks for the BR,have a good day always. HAPPY HOLIDAY
@savypat (20245)
• United States
28 Dec 09
You have to change your mind set, no amount of money will help, your worries will just grow with your income. Make a list then look at what you can control and do what is necessary. Let the rest of it go, you can't do anything about it so put your energy where it counts. Many people go through life and never learn to do this, it makes for a very stressful life. Blessings
@bingchen (1126)
• China
30 Dec 09
i know i have attention to money too much and worry about for it.of course i should change my mind,but i find it is difficult to give up this mind.
@savypat (20245)
• United States
30 Dec 09
Change is never easy, what might help is to organize what you really want. After all money is just paper, it's what it can do for you that is important. So if you can make a list of what you want and then think of all the ways you can get these. Last think of how having all of these wants will change your life. You might find you can go straight to the change you want and skip all the other stuff. After all what have you go to loose by trying this? Happy New Years
@PeacefulWmn9 (10422)
• United States
29 Dec 09
Bingchen, hello. We all have money worries, some more than others. It helps to make the most of what you have, to want fewer "things" and focus more on what you can do to spend less and earn more. If money is the true issue, all you really need is for the basics, and there are always ways to earn. The biggest problems often lie inside a person, but so does the biggest help: faith, and confidence, and a strong spirit. Look about you and see how many wealthy people are still very troubled souls. Karen
@bingchen (1126)
• China
30 Dec 09
i agree with what you said,certainly i worry about much,although it can deal with many problem,but the biggest help come from a person how to express strong to face this problem and treat it normal,person is normal person,i should make me happy and not worry about much.
@dorannmwin (36652)
• United States
31 Dec 09
You need to work on changing your outlook in life. There was a time in my life where I was constantly stressing about money and I realized that it is not healthy to worry about all the time. Sure, we all want to have as much money as we could possibly need, but if we had what we thought was enough money we would only find that we wanted more. I think it is part of the human nature to be greedy to a certain extent. As for my husband and myself, I think that we are happier to be able to just get by than to have as much money as we could possibly use.