Do you like dating someonw who is your complete opposite?

@cripfemme (7710)
United States
December 29, 2009 12:51am CST
I don't. I tried to for a long time because I thought it would broaden my horizons, but I've discovered that this is not necessarily the case. If I'm totally different from someone, why would I want to go out with them? We would just argue all the time. I know they say opposites attract, but moths are attracted to light bulbs and open flames. This doesn't mean going towards flame and light is good for moths. In my opinion, dating someone too divergent from you is not good for you either. Be their friend, if you really find them that interesting. Don't date them or sleep with them. What do you think and why?
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@srganesh (6344)
• India
29 Dec 09
Opposite poles attract each other!It will be fun to have a person to date with completely different views against you.Otherwise having a person with same interests will lead to boredom after some time.I suggest to readily agree a date with a contradictory person immediately without may open new doors in your life.
@zandi458 (28124)
• Malaysia
29 Dec 09
I think it will be a disaster to date the opposite. It needs the right chemistry to enjoy the relationship. It is like having a cat and a dog in the house.
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@mjcookie (2273)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
I've never dated anybody, but regarding your question, I don't think I would date the opposite, too. I think it is gonna harm both of your egos. Besides, it feels great to be with someone whom you can relate with. You'll know it because it feels so natural. You share the same interests, convictions, and dreams. You go along the same path of life. I am not saying that misunderstandings won't be present--it will always be--but at least they are less.