Have you ever caught your gf/bf, partner cheating on you?
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
December 29, 2009 4:32am CST
Once I caught my roommate's bf cheating on her during a Birthday party. I told her what I seen but she never believe on me. But then later she found out the truth.
Have you ever caught your partner cheating on you? What did you do?
5 responses
@maria1081 (1251)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
I had a boyfriend before that I broke up with because I know he's cheating but I didn't caught him personally but because people sorrounds us knew his reputation as a cheater. I thought a good person like me can change his ways but I was wrong.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
Yeah, Most often we think that we can change someone and make him quit with his vices and bad behavior but almost always get disappointed. I have known other people who get married with an addicted partner believing that when they get married their partner will quit but no, it didn't happened and more it gets worse. We should always be wise and accept the truth that there's love is not enough to change the person. And pay attention with our friends and family seeing the red flag. You did a good job, it saves you from lot of trouble. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@maria1081 (1251)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
Sorry for my doulbe post. It's my internet broadband connection fault. huhu...:(
@bunnygurl011285 (170)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
hola careguarden
many already i been cheated by my loved one. i dont know what will happen to me if i loose him. i just forgive him and forgive him eventhough it hurts me alot.
i just love him so much
@indocorner (546)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 09
hi bunny,
Why don't u try to find out someone else better who will never hurt u??? I think if he does it so many times, it means he is untrusted guy. U might forgive him but, in my opinion, u should not accept him again.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
Hello Bunnygurl, It's good that you always forgive your partner even you he cheated you for couple of times. But It could not be good to always accept him and let him hurt you. I agree with Indocorner, you deserve to be happy and be love with someone who deserve your love. Cheating is not just an ordinary thing, that you can just say "okay, fine let's forget about it." You only invite needless emotional pain in your life, there are some people who can't give love and can't love someone. Sometimes it's hard to accept the truth about those people, so we just bear with them, and allow our self to be hurt by them. I think we have the ability to live by ourselves and not relying by others, all we need to do is shake off our fears and have courage to move on. Life should be live and enjoyed. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
@pillow08 (97)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
I caught mine several times. Despite of that, our relationship lasted for 7 years until I finally gave up and realized he's never gonna change.
Just some instances with different girls:
One, his other GF took my number without him knowing. The Other GF called me on the mobile phone while they were making out, and I could hear them both.
Two, I read a naughty note from the other GF about how they spent the night together.
Three, I read an email he wrote to his friend asking which one should he choose, the not so smart model or me- the smarter one with a pretty face but chubby. Well, he chose me.
Oh, I could go on and on. Anyway, how I handled it? I left him. I made myself a better person. It's been three years now and he's still pursuing me. He realized he's never gonna find any one better than me, better than what we had. Such is the sweetest revenge.
@maria1081 (1251)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
I had a boyfriend before that I broke up with because I know he's cheating but I didn't caught him personally but because people sorrounds us knew his reputation as a cheater. I thought a good person like me can change his ways but I was wrong.
@FallenGurl (195)
• Canada
29 Dec 09
I caught my ex cheating twice, not in person tho, the first time i found a picture of a naked girl on his cell phone, that she took and texted to him, later found out he was cybering with her on msn. I forgave him for one reason only, i punched him in the mouth, and busted his lip, since he was against violence, he forgave me, so i did to, then, maybe a month or two later, i got curious, and looked at his phone again, and found a texted se x conversation with someone else, the same time he was texting me, that was it for me then, i kicked him out of my apartment. Even tho it wasn't actually personally with another person, he was doing it online which meant he has every intention of going further with it. I have no time for BS like that.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
Well you did a good decision with your ex. He's a junk and you deserve someone who can truly love you. In those cases we just need to accept things and move on. Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
