i am confusing

China
December 29, 2009 9:17pm CST
The boy I love doesn't have much money and his parents are farmers, I am planning to marry him next year, but I suddenly notice that we have no money to buy our own house, or even a bigger wedding ceremony. should I continuing our relationship? should i seek another boy, a rich boy? of course, No. We love each other , but I feel so depressed!
3 responses
ishme4nowz
@ishme4nowz (679)
• United States
30 Dec 09
I think you definitely should continue the relationship. I'm not quite sure about the marriage yet. You can still marry each other, but you might not be able to move out right away. You guys should get jobs to save up some money so that you guys can afford your own place one day. Don't be sad. As long as you two are together, that's all that matters. Just earn some money to save up for the future. I wish you two luck! =D
agv0419
@agv0419 (3022)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
If you really love both each other I think you can help each other financially. Why not save money first before both of you going to get married. So by that time you can afford your wedding. You should plan your future first before both of you get married.
jhess3366
@jhess3366 (67)
• United States
30 Dec 09
Of course you should go with love. If the both of you are meant to be then you will find a way to make it. As for the wedding and a house, you are like everyone else, you just have to work hard and save. Do you really need a big wedding? The wedding should be about the love between you two, not just a big formal event. Your love will make the wedding special, not the food, and decorations. Good luck and I hope you are happy in love for a long time!
langman2009
@langman2009 (51)
• China
31 Dec 09
thank you! jhess336, I will do the best! I hope you are happy too!
donsky14
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
I believe that love would conquer all. But of course, make sure that you work hard as well. You don't need to look for a rich guy, if you love the person then go for it. But it'll definitely be much better if both of you will save money first before getting married. Good luck to you!