Best thing to do to forget....?

Philippines
December 30, 2009 9:18am CST
It was really hard to forget a friend which sometimes it becomes special to us. And there was a certain thing happened that separated us with unknown reason that makes us shocked. So hard to cope up in a short time period but until now consider him/her special to us. If this happened to you friends please share with us your effective tips on how to forget them easily while their memories still we see in our daily activities that always remind us of their presence when we're together. Thank you so much to all of you friends here... Have a happy day!
6 responses
@pillow08 (97)
• Philippines
31 Dec 09
I don't think you can really ever forget someone. I believe the best thing to do is to accept the situation. Stay away from the activities that remind you of your friend if you can but that isn't exactly the best solution. How you live your life doesn't really have to change, the quality of your life doesn't need to be compromised, and most of all you don't have to deprive yourself just to forget and move on. Keep yourself busy, join new activities, do things alone, enjoy yourself and accept the fact that you've lost your special friend. Good luck!
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• Philippines
31 Dec 09
Yes friend you're right, if possible stay away from those activities that reminds me of him. But the worst thing is we've meet here in mylot then we share the happy moments in the internet as friends and lately a month ago it happened with unclear reason why he left me.. Then remove me from his friends lists. Floating why? Cause too much pain. I better take your advice as much as I can. Computer reminds me of him. Cellphone reminds me of him.. Where to go friend?? Thanks to you and Happy new year!
• Philippines
1 Jan 10
See, that's exactly it. You've always enjoyed mylot-ting even before you met him. So why would you need to stop MyLot-ting just because of him? Could you stop using your mobile phone? No, you can't. You don't deserve to be treated that way. Try to think of it this way: It's better that he "dropped" your friendship now than later when you have developed a lot deeper relationship. Have you tried talking to him about the situation? There may be some serious reason behind it. Anyway, just do things you've always enjoyed doing and improve yourself. That is the sweetest revenge. Good luck, dear.
@arystine (1274)
• Philippines
31 Dec 09
For me, there is always a grave reason if I have to force myself to forget a friend. I just always remind myself that I don't deserve friends who are liars or backstabbers or plain toxic friends. It's easy to forget friends who are not worthy of your time. Just don't communicate with them through phone or mobile phone, don't initiate plans with that person. Talk to that person only when necessary, when unavoidable. Make that person feel that things have changed. In time, that person will realize that there are no future for the two of you as friends.
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• Philippines
31 Dec 09
Thank you friend! You really are brave... hope i will be like you. Now i need to take your advice anyway i just the one npw who would like to talk to him just to know why.. But he cut all our communication.. sorry for me. Now i remove all the contact list of him in my kist of friends also. I want to move in and changed my life.. Thank you so much friend..Happy new year!
@calai618 (1779)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
If he/ she is really a friend, I guess the best thing to do would be forgetting whatever that was that made you part ways and probably bring back the friendship instead of forgetting that friend. I have had a lot of failed friendships before and I should admit that it's really hard. I believe I can never forget the person. I may have forgotten what the causes were over time but the thought of me losing friends over petty stuff is just so terrible. Time heals all wounds but it is better to let time erase the bad memories and not the friendship itself. Its better to forget everything and bring back the friendship.. :D
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• Philippines
31 Dec 09
Yes it was really hard for me to forget that friend and i say thank you to your advice. I should take your advice that let the time healed the wounds. I am terrible hurt this parted ways of us with no clear reason why? Thanks and happy new year friend!
@coolcat123 (4390)
• India
31 Dec 09
To forget, the best thing according to me will be brain wash, I mean not to bring the thoughts to your mind which disturb you, when these thoughts comes, then one may think of the happiest moment or to divert your time in other things.
• Philippines
31 Dec 09
Thanks friend you're right.. I need to be strong to forget every thing about him. Hopefully I can divert every moments into a new healthy thinking... I'll try my best.. Thanks again and Happy new year!
@nitu1952 (286)
• India
31 Dec 09
if one wants to forgot our sorrowful thing then at that time there is only one option. what's that is to remind the moment which is one of the wonderful moment in your life with which you \will feel some relax . according to me this is the best.well everone have adifferent way of forgetting something.
• Philippines
31 Dec 09
Thanks for the advice friend! I'll take it i need to think positive and wonderful momemts I have heat feel me relax then I can forget.. You're right. Thanks and happy new year!
• China
31 Dec 09
i do not think we have to do something special for forget somebody. just do not attache too much attention to it and as time goes by you can forget most of the thing . if you always trying to forget something then you will never forget it since he always stary in your mind.
• Philippines
31 Dec 09
Yes you are right if i was trying it hard the more he comes into my mind and every thing in him got in specially the time we shared together when we are still friends. The most pain is he cut all our communications..and without any words coming from him why??he left me.. still pain inside.. hope i come over this moment... Thanks friend and happy new year!