Immature People

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So me and my buddy are driving around today and talking about another friend of ours. For the sake of not confusing anyone the buddy I am driving with will be considered John and the other friend we both have I will call Tom. So John and I are driving around talking about Tom's issues with girls and the game he plays with them. Now Tom don't get me wrong spits great game. Tom can pretty much get any girl he wants because he is great at communicating on certain levels with many different people including girls. Now Tom had a long term relationship of four years and constantly went around cheating on her til Tom decided to break it off with her and just continue doing with what he was doing. Tom is still going around randomly to different places and meeting different girls and hooking up with random people which is hey good for him but immature from a certain stand point because of his lack of commitment to any one girl. John and I both agree that this was immature. Now John on the other hand is talking to this girl since the summer. He has kind of kept her on the backburner throughout the last six months. John hangs out with her and stuff, but told her at the beginning of the school semester hey im going to keep talking to you, but I am going to go and meet different girls still and so on and so fourth. Now if you read my previous post recently John is the kid who I think may possibly be gay, but thats a different story, but read the post and tell me what you think! Either case in my eyes John is doing the same thing by keeping the girl he likes on the backburner while he goes around meeting all these new girls. John of course being a strong willed individual thinks its different. So I would like to know is what John doing really different than what Tom is doing? They are both toying around with the girls feelings aren't they? Opinions please would be nice!