can i marry a lady 29years younger?

Ghana
January 2, 2010 9:57am CST
i am 52years and deeply in love with a 23yaer old secretary of mine, we have been dating over a year before i employed her, she loves me so much and i want to end up marrying her, what's on your mind
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6 responses
• Philippines
3 Jan 10
Of course, as lo as you really love her and she loves you.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10424)
• United States
3 Jan 10
Hi Awudi ... welcome to MyLot. I think if you and this younger woman truly love one another, have common interests and beliefs, and enjoy each others company, it should not matter what others think. The only way to know if she, too, wants to marry is to ask :) Best wishes, Karen
@maria1081 (1252)
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
Can you marry her? Yes you can marry her. The question is would you marry her despite of the age differences? The two question seems alike but has different meaning. Would you marry her depite of what others would think? may it be her family or yours. If all of the answers are yes, then marry her. Age differences may affect the outcome of your marriage but if both of you are willing to set aside the age gap and work hard to strenghtened your relationship then I dont see any problem. Age are just numbers, what important is what's in your heart than makes you young.
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
do you have wife before??? well age doesn't matter. i also have a friend who is 23 years old and her girlfriend is 37 years old. they love each other and he also wanted to marry his girl.
@Ford666UK (103)
2 Jan 10
For me it's all about love. If you love someone it doesn't matter so much about age gaps as long as you're happy and you make each other happy. Others may not be happy about it but if they really care about you both they'll want what makes you happy.
@maezee (37230)
• United States
2 Jan 10
Last time I checked, it's legal as long as the person is over 18. If you're both deeply in love like you say, why not marry? I don't think love is reserved for people of similar ages. I do think that we tend to fall in love with people outside of our generation/age brackets, and I don't have a problem with it. If you're in love, you're in love. Her family might raise some issues about it..But again, if you're truly in love, "love will conquer all". Good luck to ya.