what is the most import thing in your life,child or husband/wife or business?

@jinyan69 (124)
China
January 4, 2010 3:34am CST
it is often that my friends discuss about this question,everyone's answer is diffrent.if you ask me ,i think ,the most thing is child,becuse i must be resposible for him once i bring him to this world,i will learn how to commune with him,how to educate him to be a good and ueaful man,how to let him own a kind heart,and ...,the child feel happy ,then my family will feel happy ,at last i will have a good mood to work .do you think so?
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@Genericbe (1378)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
The most important in my life is husband. With him, we can work together to have a job or business. With him, we can have a child and family of our own. The child is our product of love and sooner can have his own family. Without a husband, I cannot have a child. I may have a business for me but my other personal wants like affection, guidance, and emotional part is incomplete. My partner is other half part of life. Without him..I will only be half of what I am as a woman, my roles and functions and totality as a person.
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• Mexico
4 Jan 10
He Generic: Finally i found someone that understand what i think. I don't want to say that you'll forget your children or that you won't hear them. That's not like that, but if you get married you have decided that you and this person you want to live with him/her forever would be like a second part of you. If you prefer your children over him/her maybe they will not get a good education because they will not respect him/her, they'll know (children are very receptive to these signs) that for you, their dad/mom has no authority and that's terrible for them. Thanks for your answer. Hope you are having a nice day. Happy New Year and Keep Mylotting. Take Care. -Alvaro.
• China
4 Jan 10
well,I think I can understand your opions though I don't have child.In my life,my work is the best important at present.Because I just leave from college.Now,work is whole of my life.
@jinyan69 (124)
• China
4 Jan 10
hello,warmwind,thank you opion.i think your work is the most thing at this moment,to work hard when you are young,i trust you will have a good life in the future ,then have a child who is the most beutiful thing in the word.
@Hazelrose (2182)
• Philippines
5 Jan 10
Hi jinyan69,I can say that my husband and my children are the most important in my life.I love my family so much,they are my inspiration to live.Any way,i consider business also is important because with that we can,completely have our needs.As part of our life we need money for our needs and to educate our children..Have a nice day!
@px_yeap (269)
• Malaysia
5 Jan 10
currently...it is my girlfriend...she is the reason why i'm working so hard in life right now! without here...i probably don't have any goal...kind of sad! but i think is worth it!
@cinang (28)
• Philippines
5 Jan 10
For me they are all important to me. My husband is important because he is the father of my children, my children is equally important coz they make my life more meaningful and of course my work or business is also important coz without work how can we make our living? So for me they are all important.
@bingchen (1126)
• China
5 Jan 10
i think that the busband is most important thing in my life.i find that i can earn money depending on myself,so i couldnt worry about that i could not live well.but i find that living alone make me terrible,so i hope that my husband can be accompanied with me and care and help me and give me spirit comfort,so i feel happy in my life,so i think that my husband is important in my life.
@albert2412 (1782)
• United States
4 Jan 10
The most important thing in the world is to know, love and to serve Jesus and to teach our children to be good Christians, full of love for GOD and other people. Teaching our families to be good Christians are the most important gifts that we can give our families. This is a gift that will last for eternity.
• Mexico
4 Jan 10
Hi jinyan: Depends on the situation. I would love both my wife and children, i can't decide because my wife would be the love of my life, my kids are my creation, the future generation, my happiness, my success as a father. I would try to be a good father and husband at the same time. I know that in a family sometimes the children have problems with their mother and she is the authority. In that case I would support my wife because it's her criteria and only disagree with her if her decition is totally unfair. To love someone doesn't mean you have to say yes to everything he/she wants so I think it's good to hear and love your husband/wife and children in the same level. And at the same time I know that mi sons and daughters would let me in the future. A husband/wife it's forever, at least we try our best to make this statement real. Hope you are having a nice day. Happy New Year and Keep Mylotting. Take Care. -Alvaro.
@doormouse (4619)
4 Jan 10
this is the easiest question i've ever answered on here,it's my kids every time,the love you feel for your kids outways any other sort of love
@williamjisir (22900)
• China
4 Jan 10
Hello jinyan. It is a hard choice of the four. I think that each of them is related to each other. We cannot simply say which is the most important and which is the less important. I agree with you that children are of great importance to us, especially when they are young as we have to give them good education for their good future. Children take an important part in my life, but I still consider my wife to be No.1 because we are the ones to accompany each other to the end of our life. A good business is only the basic need for us to live on, without which life is harsh.
@onida143 (118)
• India
4 Jan 10
good topic to discuss on which may really some times help people to think if they prefer thier bussines and neglect thier relations then by seeing this topic atleast they can relaize what they are missing and comming to my point of view i feel i i will give equally importance to all ... then only it can make us perfect living and can live peacefully,