Can you trust him/her?
By historydog
@historydog (239)
China
January 4, 2010 8:26am CST
If someone you don't know on the Internet says she/he loves you and ask you for some money to help her/him out some bills she/he can't afford right now,and she/he has talked to you for a long time and also send you some pictures of herself/himself.Then can you trust him/her and send the money?
I start this post just because I met a girl on the net who did as what I said above to me.
Waiting your sharing!
13 responses
@kerstinerose2008 (29)
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4 Jan 10
I would certainly not lend him/her money... If she/he really loves me then he won't ask money to me on the first place especially that we haven't met yet.. and I think I should really consider it well even if we already meet... I don't want to end up being a milking cow...I think it's about time that he/she needs to reconsider all her/his expenses.
@drakesuyat (1063)
• Philippines
5 Jan 10
i cant even call this love at first sight huh
! historydog a big percentage of the people you meet on the net is lying especially when there's money involved. you cant trust her this way. happy mylotting
@rorisricha (732)
• India
5 Jan 10
Hi...Really can't believe anyone unless they are well known to us. I never do that mistake until am knowing her/him. Just up to chating can chat but money matters can't. one should be daring like to do so or should have money like lavishly even if gone also never mind. Nowadays we can't believe our close friends or relatives only then how can we believe the one who came in to through chat online....take care.....
@Ambitiouslyleiah (591)
• United States
4 Jan 10
I personally would not lend them any money. As much as you feel like you know the person you haven't met them there for you don't know them at all.
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
Nope, not at all. Even if he/she is an internet friend for a long period of time. But its up to you, its your choice. No matter how friendly a person is over the net, you can never knew whats really his/her behavior . Its easy to be friendly here but the true attitude can only be guaranteed if you have met face to face.
@ralphido (841)
• India
4 Jan 10
well.. i guess the person sweet talked you into believing its a girl.. mind you , we used to pull this trick on our friends back at college days , pretending to be a hot chick just waiting for your full attention ..and the microphone with built in voice modulator would make even my hoarse sound almost a melody.. even if , this person is a female , i wouldn't trust this person... but if you wanna be sure.. just send the person a small amount and see what happens.. once you dip your hands in a honeypot you wouldn't want to take it out.
@pengbubu (1011)
• China
4 Jan 10
I have a question, when she/he needs help, why can't she/he ask her/his real friend for help? I will not trust him/her. Who knows the other end of internet is what? If you are rich and charitable, you can do. it depends on your own choice.
@benny128 (3615)
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4 Jan 10
no way, I would never lend money to someone I have never met personally,
its upto you but I personally wouldn't and if you do I think you will prob never see the money again.
How do you know the pics are of them I take it you have seen her on webcam ??
there are a lot of scammers who gain your trust and ask for money
@Orea15 (281)
• United States
4 Jan 10
It sounds like a scam to me. Run the other way. She has baited the hook and is waiting for you to bite.
Loaning money is a bad idea even for friends you know personally. As Shakespeare so wisely observed, loan oft loses both itself and friend.
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
I cannot trust a person that fast and easy especially via internet chats only.
Trusting a person will take not just one time but a test of time and friendship. It must not be obligatory in a way you are forced or used for a reason of some material or even financial needs.
It really depends on how you know that person. You know if that person is enough for you to consider as a trusted person.
@indocorner (546)
• Indonesia
4 Jan 10
If i were u, I absolutely wouldn't trust her. I ever heard the online crime as like ur story. It even happened in my city in which a girl met a boy in facebook, they often chatted for a long time n said love to her. He eventually dared to ask for help n asked the girl to lend n send him amount of money. Finally, her money is never returned.
@JDLofton (51)
• United States
4 Jan 10
I too would not send them any money. As stated before, they could be running a scam on you. And if that is so than you are not the only one they are doing that to. Me personally would not send them no money as you do not know anything about them. Never seen them in person. It is probably there of going around to make money.




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