His teacher quit over the break

@lilybug (21107)
United States
January 6, 2010 6:39pm CST
Monday my son returned to school after winter break to discover that his teacher had quit. As far as the kids and parents know she did not give any notice and did not bother saying goodbye to her students. He will have a sub until they can find a replacement, which I am sure will not be easy in the middle of the school year. My son is pretty upset because he really liked his teacher. This is the 3rd time in his 5 years in school his teacher has left mid year. Have you ever had to deal with a child getting used to a new teacher mid year?
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@AmbiePam (85294)
• United States
9 Jan 10
I wonder if the school is treating its teachers right. For so many of the teachers to have left without completing the year... I also hope his former teacher didn't have something bad happen in her family. It's kind of traumatizing in a way for little kids to have to adjust to new teachers when they are so used to one person. Kids get so attached, unlike adults.
@AmbiePam (85294)
• United States
9 Jan 10
I hadn't thought about that. I imagine that would stress me out to. I hate confrontations.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
9 Jan 10
I know she had some pretty horrible students that were really stressing her out. She said on more than one occasion that my son ( who can really be a punk at times) was her best behaved student.
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• Philippines
7 Jan 10
oh, it's sad when that happens, especially if the children had grown to like the teacher who left. But then that will teach them an important lesson in life, to accept changes , that is. Well,maybe teachers feel unreciprocated for their effort, and this is evident from the number of teachers that left
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
7 Jan 10
She did have a lot of problem students in her class and I am sure that made it hard for her to teach.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
9 Jan 10
Wow!! They leave without even coming in and saying Goodby to their class? This seems unreal and would be hard for the children to take especially if it has happened to them 3 times already. Have you checked with the school to get any explanation? All I can say is wishing your Son the Best, and hopefully this is not going to be a normal trend for that school as well.
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
7 Jan 10
Wow that's a lot of teachers leaving. My daughter had that problem in preschool. Her teacher has issues with the preschool company and she quit. So they got them a sub till after christmas and then the replacement started after they got back from Christmas. I was a little upset at first and thought she would have issues, but it was honestly the best thing that ever happened to her. When she started she would listen and follow along but she was too shy to participate. The new teacher figured out what would work and got her to open up.
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
7 Jan 10
I am glad it worked out for your daughter. I am just worried about how long it will take for a replacement teacher. My son is already complaining that math was easier when his old teacher taught it.
@dawnald (85130)
• Shingle Springs, California
8 Jan 10
I only had to deal with it once when a teacher went on maternity leave. Correction, twice. In both cases, she came back before the end of the school year. If the child really likes the teacher, that can be really hard on them.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
8 Jan 10
it is very bad for the teachers to leave abruptly in the middle of the academic year.And small kids will really be upset if they had started liking towards them.Teachers are parents at school and I can understand how he would be upset.Not only that,the students will not be able to adopt to the style of different teachers.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
7 Jan 10
I haven't had to deal with that yet but children do get attached to their teachers. When my daughter went to middle school last year, the hardest thing for her was leaving a teacher that she adored. There was one time that my daughter had a substitute for most of the year because of a childbirth. I didn't feel like she got what she needed out of school that year.
@edu4625 (188)
• United States
7 Jan 10
No I've never had to deal with that problem or heard of anyone's child experiencing that kind of situation. I have heard the opposite which is a child transferring to a lot of schools but definitely not your story. Still I would say that it's unusual for a teacher to not care or be concerned about the students enough to not say goodbye. Most teachers know that children are very impressionable and would try to not leave them with bad experiences. I can only think the fault is in the school that your child attends. Perhaps they are firing the teachers or making it difficult for them to stay on the job. Why don't you ask the administration what is their policy about changing teachers in mid-year and do they give the teachers an opportunity to give closure to students by saying goodbye or giving some explanation of their departure so the students won't think they were the problem.
• China
7 Jan 10
Although I did not meet this situation, but I can imgine your kids' upset. It is not a short time to follow a new teacher's style, what's more, it is not easy to find a suitable new one. You need to guide the kids to be some optimism for a new one. Good luck to you and your kids.