how does looking at your partner affect your relationships?

Philippines
January 6, 2010 8:57pm CST
There is a difference between looking at your lover and looking into ur lover's eyes.When you look at your partner, you still maintain that feeling of separateness from him or her, making you two distinct persons but wen ur inlove, you look into into his eyes and you feel the boundaries between both of you melt away,creating a feeling of oneness.
2 responses
• Malaysia
7 Jan 10
hi hl .. really beautiful ... well said . me n hubby were lovers for 16 years, his family disapprove our union .. 3 years back,we crosse the border , we were finally married by then he was 45 n me 35, we lost our youth in this battle .. but dear i won the man at the end.. i don care what his family puts me tru .. as long as i have his smile, his love, n him beside me on my bed every morning ... cheers
• Philippines
7 Jan 10
wow!!!what a romantic love story,,so happy for you!i really believe on that matter,loving someone involves sacrifices and acceptance,whatver it takes just hold on and in the end we deserve to be happy forever with the man we love..cheers to that!!
• Malaysia
7 Jan 10
yup forever with the man we love n who love us as much too ..
• Philippines
8 Jan 10
yah cheers to that!!
@Genericbe (1378)
• Philippines
7 Jan 10
True, as the it affect as saying goes that sometimes LOVE is blind. You cannot see the negative things about the person at all. But if looking the character differences then you will be in reality of knowing you are totally having separation for want and needs in life. Even in sharing of opinions and giving solution to a certain problem.
• Philippines
8 Jan 10
we need to love the person for whatever he is, not for what he have..looking for the right person is to accept the reality,..maybe love is blind but we need to be contented in order to be happy.